MiaCharlize
Coroner
Re: The Rant and Ramble Thread
To my teampartner/colleague:
WTF, you're "pulling through" for me? You don't have to! I know that there's situations that are hard to handle, if you're not ready, fine, leave! I will stay. Seriously, you and your "experiences"...why are you telling me all that? If you've had it so much worse, how come you can't deal with this now?
They're just kids, admittedly they're loud, strenous and have no discipline, respect or patience, whatsoever, but they're supposed to learn that at school! Why did you even start there if you hate the noise so much. I mean, what did you expect? A bunch of little angels?
I can't begin to tell you how pissed I was at what you said. You want honesty and open communication? Then don't tell the headmistress WE can't handle it, tell her it's about YOU. I for my part LOVE the job and I absolutely adore every single brat running around there. Did you even take the time to talk to them? Beyond the "how was your day" crap? Those kids need someone who pays attention, that's the whole point behind the project we're partaking in. They don't need someone telling them to shut up and behave. Ok, they do...but not all the time.
Ever noticed that they behave much better when you explain to them why you want them quiet instead of just belittling them and threatening them with punishment? No...guess you're too old for that.
I really wonder what made you do this in the first place...
To my teampartner/colleague:
WTF, you're "pulling through" for me? You don't have to! I know that there's situations that are hard to handle, if you're not ready, fine, leave! I will stay. Seriously, you and your "experiences"...why are you telling me all that? If you've had it so much worse, how come you can't deal with this now?
They're just kids, admittedly they're loud, strenous and have no discipline, respect or patience, whatsoever, but they're supposed to learn that at school! Why did you even start there if you hate the noise so much. I mean, what did you expect? A bunch of little angels?
I can't begin to tell you how pissed I was at what you said. You want honesty and open communication? Then don't tell the headmistress WE can't handle it, tell her it's about YOU. I for my part LOVE the job and I absolutely adore every single brat running around there. Did you even take the time to talk to them? Beyond the "how was your day" crap? Those kids need someone who pays attention, that's the whole point behind the project we're partaking in. They don't need someone telling them to shut up and behave. Ok, they do...but not all the time.
Ever noticed that they behave much better when you explain to them why you want them quiet instead of just belittling them and threatening them with punishment? No...guess you're too old for that.
I really wonder what made you do this in the first place...