Okay, so I've been thinking about the episode more and more over the past 24hrs or so, and...well I guess I have more to say than I initially thought.
I'm glad the episode wasn't overwhelmed by Grissom and Sara's relationship, though while I did enjoy the veggie burger scene, it did feel a little tacked in there. Don't shoot me, now - hear me out.
It seemed to be kind of...just for the shippers' sakes, I guess (to say 'Yes, we do remember they are together! We haven't forgotten! We won't let you down!') with no other purpose. While I'm glad they haven't disregarded their relationship like they did with Catherine's demotion & return to the Grave shift at the beginning of last season, I dislike it when kind of pointless moments (of any nature) like that are in a script, no matter the sweetness in them (and no matter how amusing Warrick was, heh). The following isn't to say I would rather the moments primarily function as plot devices as such, but I think that such moments should feel wrapped into furthering the story at the same time - otherwise it can feel a bit stilted, I guess (for want of a better term). We haven't had a canon romantic relationship between any of the leads in the show before, so it's an understandable to be even slightly wary about the show shifting too far away from what it's built itself to be. Don't want the fuel the antis' fire. HOWEVER, they've done dozens of shippy moments very well in the past, as we all know. Examples of how they have worked smoothly in the story?
The 'beauty' line in
Primum Non Nocere stemmed from conversation about the case. Hockey to sports to baseball to beauty...to Sara. Then they moved on.
The chalk dust scene in
Scuba Doobie Doo came from Grissom's reaction to the case at hand, and it led to washing up, which led to Grissom realising the hot water wasn't working, which led to the discovery of the body.
Sara's "Do you want to sleep with me" line in
Sex, Lies and Larvae led to Grissom latching onto her "under the blanket" comment, and realising the error in his bug timeline experiment. And their tenderness over that moment later on - her gratitude and their warmth - it was all part of that, yet still a big part of them.
I could go on to name more (believe me, there are many) but I hope you all get where I'm coming from. The veggie burger moment came from nowhere and went nowhere, really. Even Sara's similar moment with Nick in
Bodies in Motion last year, offering to get him a sandwich, was a device to make her leave, so he'd be alone when the bug freakout happened. Just as Nick leaving with the random girl at the bar this episode, was a device to ensure Cath was alone in order to be raped. With the veggie burger scene - Grissom was in and out, with no real impact on anything. It didn't reveal anything new to the audience, it didn't reveal anything new to Warrick, and it didn't exactly further (or hinder) Grissom and Sara's relationship with each other either (no matter how nice it was to see Gris being so sweet and considerate of his lover). And it's not as if the burger even had sesame seeds on the bun, leading to any epiphany about the case (see? simple way of working it in somewhat). I enjoyed it as much as all of you, yes - but I know TPTB are more clever than that. They could have worked it in better, I think, or at least created an equivalently sweet scene that did more for the storyline than that.
With the second GSR scene of
Built To Kill, though, I believe they achieved this:
I enjoyed this scene between them much more. The scene itself and the information being communicated was doing more than just advocating their relationship (the case had to be wrapped up, after all) but it did that, too. Sara's use of "my supervisor" showed she was communicating with him on a partner-level, rather than a professional one; and the simple, subtle intimacy in Grissom's "Bye" was just the kinda thing I wanted.
The intimacy contained in and portrayed through that single word from Grissom's mouth made all the difference (in my mind). It was sweet and filled with a
lot of love. It may sound silly, but there was a lot more than a goodbye in the way he said that word - it was certainly subtle: his stillness, his gaze, his tone, the way he stayed looking where he was after she turned away...you could see into him.
It's strange for me to think about (something so small speaking so many volumes to me for some reason) but I really think it's true. And I think in a way it's strange for me because I recognise that feeling in him - in the inflection applied to that word. I've felt that way before. I've said that kind of goodbye. It's kindred to me.
There's an element of restraint in feeling so much and wanting to say so much...but in such a simple moment, you know you can't. Or shouldn't? Fear of overwhelming someone or seeming inappropriate in your love in that moment. Feeling that - although you're with someone, and they obviously want to be with you - you're almost
too lucky or simply undeserving of them and
they haven't quite realised that yet...so you're careful. Not wanting to risk it. Of course you can enjoy the simple happiness and wonderment in many of the moments at the same time (camera duel, anyone?) but there are those times when thought and emotion washes over you. You saw Grissom's fear last season in
TOYD in his comments about being intimidated by beauty - and I'm sure with Sara, it went a lot deeper than that. Look at the
Butterflied speech. Look at everything over the past 6-or-so years. Relationships are foreign to him, and genuine expression (not hidden behind a cheeky one-liner) can be almost painful through all that fear. Look at how he orders the plant in
Burden of Proof. There is just so much feeling welled up between these giant floodgates of restraint.
In moments and words like that simple "Bye", you can see it seep through.
...Plus, when does Grissom ever bother saying goodbye to anyone? (Although it wasn't final, and it wasn't him doing the leaving, "No cake in the breakroom" remember?) Heh.
Of course this comes down to perception and opinion. Perhaps it also comes down to seeing what we want to see, if that may be the case. I don't know. But I'm not completely rigid in my feelings here - I'm definitely open to discussion about it, if anyone would like to debate any of my points.
I'd like to hear what the rest of you think. (Plus a gold star to whoever read my entire post
)