The implication of that statement is more, "People dislike Lindsay more because she's dating a guy they find attractive." That's not just saying, "People like Danny better because he's more attractive than Lindsay." We had an interesting discussion a few months back about whether people would be harder on Danny if he was a woman, and many said yes, probably. I'd be happy to discuss whether people are easier on Danny because he's more attractive than Lindsay. I'd even acknowledge it's probable.
But that's not what you were getting at. You trotted out the tired old, "People dislike Lindsay because they're jealous she's dating their TV crush!" Telling people they're jealous of a fictional character because she's dating another fictional character is both silly and insulting.
Look, I don't want to be disrespectful, but that's NOT what I was saying. I own up to what I say. If I wanted to suggest that people dislike Lindsay only because she's dating Danny, I would say it.
If you want me to be totally honest, I will. I think that there is probably at least one person in the world (not on this forum, necessarily) who dislikes Lindsay solely because she's romantically entangled with Danny. I've seen it happen in other fandoms, so I don't think it's unrealistic that someone would fall into this category.
That said, I will repeat once again that I was not trying to insult people or imply that they are shallow.
I would be very interested to know if appearance of the characters maybe does change your view on them. I admit that it does for me; I am not really attracted to Carmine or Hill, and I tend to have very negative responses to their characters.
Absolutely. I'm sure your experiences inform how you view the character, just as mine do. I've known emotionally manipulative, pathologically selfish people like Lindsay.
Again, not to be disrespectful, but I don't think there is enough canon evidence to suggest that Lindsay is purposefully emotionally manipulative, and there is little to no evidence to suggest that Lindsay is selfish, let alone pathologically so.
She certainly is no more manipulative than Mac or Danny or even Stella are, and in the case of selfishness I think Danny probably wins hands down.
Also, not to get into a pissing contest over who has had the worst experiences, but I've known my fair share of manipulators and selfish people, and I gotta say Lindsay doesn't even come close to what they're like.
Just as I might think you're reading too much into a character that is whimsically and inconsistently written.
We all have our biases. And, btw, it's Anna with two 'n's, not one.
Explain the whimsical and inconsistency to me. If you're going to talk about Season Three, we know that there was a cause for the mood swings. Danny seems to be having the same issue now, if I recall. He's grieving over Ruben, ignoring Lindsay then suddenly he's back to teasing/flirting with her at work and we
still don't know what he feels for her.
I think both characters have been behaving as normal humans do; we all have our good days and bad days, and sometimes we have worse days.
It's very consistent with human nature, which is to say that it isn't always consistent.
And thanks for letting me know about Anna's name. I'll probably forget later on. I'm horrible with names.
It was a juvenile response made to someone on whose sympathies she knew she could play upon. I agree that it was spontaneous, but she knew who she was saying it to--that part was calculated. She never would have said that to Mac, for instance.
Are you sure? What in canon says that she wouldn't have said it to Mac? And what supports your belief that it's calculated and not just a knee-jerk reaction to desperately not wanting to do something?
Lindsay has not been shy about being unenthusiastic about doing things to Mac before, even if she was resigned to doing it. Those are actually some of Lindsay's best scenes. I think if Mac had been there he probably would have made her talk to the mother, but I think he would have taken note of her reaction as well and had a little sit-down with her about it.
Grey's Anatomy--for all its dramatic elements, it features well-rounded characters who aren't always sympathetic and likable, but are always real. Cristina Yang isn't always supposed to be likable. Were Lindsay written that way, I might be able to accept her as a character more readily. But the "poor Lindsay" agenda--how we're always supposed to feel bad for her, be it that she's oh so emotional over a case, having to testify at the trial of her friends' killer, or being rejected by Danny--leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth, especially given how many of her actions are unsympathetic.
I suspected after I had posted that GA was "Grey's", but I figured I'd wait to be sure. I don't really like that show, so I can't discuss the characters and make comparisons.
I don't think that the writers are trying to make you go "Poor Lindsay" anymore than they try to get me to say "Poor Danny" or "Poor Mac" or "Poor Stella". I think they like to write angst and put most of the characters on the show through the wringer, and they succeed.
I'm surprised any of the characters can still function after everything they've been through. :lol: