He also indicated that nothing would or could ever happen between the two of them.
this is your interpretation, not a fact. he said "i don't know what to do about this" which in my opinion is hardly the equivalent of implying that nothing could ever happen between them. on the contrary, to me it meant that he is confused and undecided but he acknowledged that there actually is *something* between them.
Butterflied came only 13 episodes later and we hear what were the hidden reasons behind his decision. of course nothing was said directly so you still don't have to believe the whole ep was about Sara, but about LH or Terri or whoever else. to me it would be kinda hard since there are hints to Sara in half of the scenes, but everybody is free to think what they want.
Once more, You miss the point. Yeah, Grissom felt the attraction to her, even then in the beginning. That I can't argue with. He also said that he didn't know what to do about it, meaning that he felt it would be WRONG for them to get together. What changed that. I understand he was realizing how deep his feelings were for Sara, but again, at the end of it, the monologue with the doctor who'd probably committed the murder, it seemed he knew better, or was definitely EXTREMELY conflicted about it.
Then came "Weeping Willows," where he got mad at Catherine for meeting and making out with Adam Novak at that bar, when by that time, he was probably already boinking Sara, or they were near that point?
Weeping Willows was before Grave Danger and so far most people assume it happened after that episode. but i can see your point. he was harsh on Catherine, maybe even too harsh and i think he realized that afterwards. she tried to explain to him the need for human connection but he dissmissed it. what if he later realized that Catherine was right? or isn't he allowed to change his opinion, especially after the events in Grave Danger?[/quote]
Well...I'd certainly like to see a CANON explination for that. Sort of like there was a Canon explaination for Warrick marrying Tina.
Nick and Greg, Danny and Flack, those are different.
how are they different? are you sure there is no fraternizing rule in the lab? what if i tell you that homosexual relationships are thought of by many people as unethical? fraternizing or sleeping with you boss is not
illigal, but is against the internal rules of the CSI institution (Grissom and Sara were hardly penalized by Ecklie anyway). you won't go to jail for committing any of it so it all depends on your own ethical code which for every person is different. we can argue about it forever, but like
Erica said, i've had this discussion about a billion times before so it's a bit pointless.[/quote]
You know what, if that's the reason for you being down on slash ships, cram it. The homophobic argument is way, way old. 'Cause Guess what, having a homosexual relationship isn't against the rules of the CSI Constitution. However, screwing your boss is. And that's the point I was trying to make. Nick isn't Greg's boss, Flack isn't Danny's boss, but Grissom IS Sara's Boss.
You're pulling every reason but the kitchen sink out for Grissom and Sara to be okay. I don't buy it. I agree that Ecklie didn't hardly penalize Sara and Grissom, but that's because he CHOSE not to. He could have very easily replaced Grissom as supervisor, and yes, Sara did end up moving to Swing.
I've said my piece about why I disliked the GSr. I'm not necessarily against it, it just seems so odd that Grissom was very much not willing to go there, then all of a sudden she walks out of his bathroom. Then, it seems like the focus of the show became that. Then, it's like, Okay, how are they going to keep Ecklie from finding out, how are they going to coexist, etc. It just became a detriment to the show, IMO. Then, no to mention the Arrogance of the GSr Shippers.
Anyways. You obviously are ignoring anything you don't want to hear, so....I don't see the point in arguing with you anymore. All you are doing is ranting and trying to cram it down our throats that GSr is somehow more acceptable just because it's canon.