I get what you're saying - we wouldn't just see Stella saying that she's excited to have a kid while Adam got most of the realistic emotional scenes, and we also wouldn't see Stella grappling with the realistic emotional stuff while Adam just stood there beaming about fatherhood. I would expect both of them to get bits of both, and it's significant that they haven't done that with Danny and Lindsay (under the pretense of not being "typical", which sounds to me more like an excuse for how they've done it than an actual stylistic choice).
But they've put me in a position where I have to overanalyze every little detail right now.
I wonder if they intend any of this stuff we're talking about to be actual foreshadowing and/or to tease us? If we didn't know someone was going to die, I doubt we'd put much thought into the symbolism of a director zooming in on Danny's bloody hands or Adam having a bullet wound design on the front of his street hockey mask* or anything else like that. I mean, I'm sure we're all reading too far into it, which I think is fine because why else are we talking about spoilers
, but I am curious whether any of this stuff is intentional or just coincidental...
It makes me wonder when they made the decision to kill off one of the characters - is it something they've been planning for a while, or was it a more recent decision, you know?