pizzapie said:
Well, face it, women are far more likely to be in the situation of being a victim. The estimate is that 1 out of every 5 women have been raped. (It's 1 out of 12 for men- and these stats came from a domestic violence workshop I attended two months ago.)
Well, on this show it's 2/3. Stella was almost raped, and Aiden may very well have been. Why are you so eager to see Lindsay a victim? That would up the stats to 3/3--surely not representative, as
every woman hasn't been a victim of a crime. There's a vast difference between 20% and 100%.
Would you complain if the males were the victims?
No, I wouldn't, for numerous reasons. One, because it wouldn't be taking the easy/cliched route. How many times have we seen women victimized? It happens over and over again, so often that it seems every time there's a tough woman on screen, her toughness has to be "explained away" by some sort of past victimization.
Homicide: Life on the Street (a truly ground-breaking cop drama) broke the mold when it delved into the sexual abuse one of its male characters suffered as a child.
As for male victims on this show, we know Danny was one at least once, and given all his emotional issues in general, I suspect he was abused in one way or another as a child.
But the real point isn't to make men the victims--what I'm asking is why
all of the women on the show have been made into victims. That's why I'd like to see Lindsay's dark secret be something other than her being a victim of a crime.
If you meant by aggressor her getting physical to go after suspects, or have to fight back if she was attacked at a crime scene (and face it, Lindsay is TINY. Maybe a suspect was still nearby, and thought they could overtake Lindsay because of her size), we've seen stuff like that, and that is fine, but I don't want her (or ANY of them) to be shown using unnecessary force. Although, I do trust the NY writers to handle it better than writers of a certain other show. Unnecessary force is brutality and it doesn't need to be glorified.
I have no idea what "other show" you're talking about, but I sure thought the violence against Stella was glamorized--maybe not glorified, but certainly excessive.
The idea with Lindsay being some sort of serial killer was said partially in jest, because I don't think this show would either go that dark or be that daring.
I do like the idea of someone in her family being a murderer and her trying to grapple with worrying about having that potential inside of her, because that's something we haven't seen before, and could give her some very layered character development.