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Re: Your Thoughts on the upcoming Danny/Lindsay development (SPOILERS!
And I think that's something we've seen many times with him. That's why he was sleeping with Rikki in the first place- he "wanted this hurt to go away." From what we've seen of Danny on this show, it's not a leap to assume he hasn't had anyone cuddling him and telling him love doesn't has to hurt, that functional relationships don't include pain.
And I say that because look at him. In Run Silent, Run Deep, he mentioned that Louie pushed him away that night in 1991, and things were never the same between them. In Trapped, he mentioned that Louie would ignore him and only come to Danny when he wanted something. And that's his own family.
We have no true indications of what happened between Danny and his family, but we can infer based on his actions with others. Mac, the authority figure he spent pretty much all of season 1 in defiance of. That sounds to me like a young man with issues in his past from his father. Defying Mac gave him some semblance of control, which could stem from issues with his father, in which Danny thinks someone's always gotta be in control and Danny doesn't like being kept down. He feels he needs to rebel against his boss, and that could be a sign of a poor paternal relationship.
Part 2 of this is in Some Buried Bones, when Adam, Stella, and Danny are looking at the surveillance footage, and Adam confesses his father was a bully. While Stella looks sympathetic, Danny looks knowing- like he knows what Adam went through and is still struggling with. Granted, there is more than one interpretation to looks, but that's what I saw.
Danny's a damaged man, and to him, sex makes things better- albeit for a short period, but it does make things better.
And, to me, that's one of the most important points- there was clear confirmation at the end of season 6. And I say clear confirmation because it wasn't just sex- it was two people getting ready for bed, sharing their lives. NOT just a one night stand.
And the plot was played out all through the next season- granted, the other CSIs didn't know (well, apparently Greg did, but anyway), but the audience knew, and it was clearly seen. That continued right up until she left... hell, it's still going on with her coming back, too. You know that she's with him with him, not just having sex with him.
Exactly. Another point about GSR vs. DL is that both of them have admitted to being in love, in canon. They both are on the same page, and both of them have pursued one another since they first met. As they explained to Ecklie, they've always had a relationship, and they've chased each other (in some sense) since that first day.
This is true as well. As far as we've seen since then, they've worked together. They've been professional. There's been no indication (not even through eyes and body language) that they have any sort of a romantic relationship. It looks like Danny's been hanging more with the boys and Lindsay's been with Mac, Stella, and Hawkes more. But, at the same time, when they are together, they're not ten seconds from jumping across the table and having hot sex. They're not even close to going in a corner to snuggle and watch a movie. They're just working.
Why would Danny carry on with someone he knows loves him, if he didn't feel the same way, it makes no sense to me at all. And makes Danny look all kinds of bad.
Because Danny is an incredibly damaged character who seems to equate love with being hurt and uses sex as a bandage to fix things?
And I think that's something we've seen many times with him. That's why he was sleeping with Rikki in the first place- he "wanted this hurt to go away." From what we've seen of Danny on this show, it's not a leap to assume he hasn't had anyone cuddling him and telling him love doesn't has to hurt, that functional relationships don't include pain.
And I say that because look at him. In Run Silent, Run Deep, he mentioned that Louie pushed him away that night in 1991, and things were never the same between them. In Trapped, he mentioned that Louie would ignore him and only come to Danny when he wanted something. And that's his own family.
We have no true indications of what happened between Danny and his family, but we can infer based on his actions with others. Mac, the authority figure he spent pretty much all of season 1 in defiance of. That sounds to me like a young man with issues in his past from his father. Defying Mac gave him some semblance of control, which could stem from issues with his father, in which Danny thinks someone's always gotta be in control and Danny doesn't like being kept down. He feels he needs to rebel against his boss, and that could be a sign of a poor paternal relationship.
Part 2 of this is in Some Buried Bones, when Adam, Stella, and Danny are looking at the surveillance footage, and Adam confesses his father was a bully. While Stella looks sympathetic, Danny looks knowing- like he knows what Adam went through and is still struggling with. Granted, there is more than one interpretation to looks, but that's what I saw.
Danny's a damaged man, and to him, sex makes things better- albeit for a short period, but it does make things better.
And as much as people want to deny it, D/L is to CSI NY what GSR was to the Mothership
At least we knew when GSR were together.
And, to me, that's one of the most important points- there was clear confirmation at the end of season 6. And I say clear confirmation because it wasn't just sex- it was two people getting ready for bed, sharing their lives. NOT just a one night stand.
And the plot was played out all through the next season- granted, the other CSIs didn't know (well, apparently Greg did, but anyway), but the audience knew, and it was clearly seen. That continued right up until she left... hell, it's still going on with her coming back, too. You know that she's with him with him, not just having sex with him.
She's admitted in canon to being in love with him, but for the record, he never has. He's never even admitted to being in a relationship with her, much less be in love with her.
Exactly. Another point about GSR vs. DL is that both of them have admitted to being in love, in canon. They both are on the same page, and both of them have pursued one another since they first met. As they explained to Ecklie, they've always had a relationship, and they've chased each other (in some sense) since that first day.
until we got the news Lindsay will be pregnant and Lenkov's statements that 'Danny and Lindsay are together', we've had no signs whatsoever that Danny 'carried on' with Lindsay after episode 4x19. Heck, until now, episode 5x03, we still haven't seen any sign of them being together at all.
This is true as well. As far as we've seen since then, they've worked together. They've been professional. There's been no indication (not even through eyes and body language) that they have any sort of a romantic relationship. It looks like Danny's been hanging more with the boys and Lindsay's been with Mac, Stella, and Hawkes more. But, at the same time, when they are together, they're not ten seconds from jumping across the table and having hot sex. They're not even close to going in a corner to snuggle and watch a movie. They're just working.