It's well within our rights to critique Anna's acting, as it's part of her performance as Lindsay. It's not "bashing" her, it's not like we're saying she's a bad person, just that her talent isn't up to par.
The only time I've seen that Top or I have had to intervene and tell anyone that they're taking the situation too personally is when comments (whether from pro-Lindsay or anti-Lindsay people) start getting personal. Everyone's opinion is welcome so long as it doesn't cross into personal territory (ie., telling someone they are stupid because of their opinion.)
I think a big problem is that people say "I don't like Lindsay" (or even "I do like Lindsay") and then feel that it's a personal attack when someone disagrees. IT'S NOT. Just because someone likes Lindsay and I don't doesn't mean that I think that person is stupid, or an idiot, or whatever. It just means that we don't have the same opinion, which is a good thing. Variety is the spice of life. It also doesn't mean that I think whatever values you might hold, or even any of your other opinions, are not worth listening to.
I do have to say, though, that if anyone, ANYONE, whether you're pro or anti anything, can't handle their opinions being scrutinized then maybe you should rethink your opinion. Top and I try our damnedest to make the NY forum a mix of fun (with the game threads and the drool threads) and seriousness (these debate threads.) Our point of view with these more serious discussion and debate threads is that people will defend their views because they believe in it. I don't see this going on. All I see is one opinion being put out there, it getting scrutinized, and then the people who put that opinion there getting upset that someone tried to shoot holes in it. My advice? Come back with a counter-argument. With enough evidence you can support any view you want. Find the evidence you need to support your view and apply it. That's how discussions and debates work and that's the type of setting Top and I are trying to encourage.
I'm sorry that some people feel like they can't come in this forum simply because they like a character that it seems the majority dislikes. But I have to say, you're not doing yourself any favors by avoiding this place. SHOW us why you think Lindsay is awesome. Use specific examples. It's entirely possible that we've overlooked something that you all have noticed in her character development. If you keep these things within your own realm of Lindsay-love then of course you'll never persuade anyone to like her. And, as I stated before, if you do bring up specific examples, expect us to counter it with the reasons why we don't like her. The only thing left after that is to come back with your own counter-argument. I can't stress this enough. Picture a debate as a tennis match if you will. It goes back and forth, with each side presenting evidence supporting their argument. That's how it works.