This is my...third or fourth post I think. I just joined earlier this week, and before that I had never been on the forums before. I will state flat out that Lindsey is far from my favorite character...and I don't even really like Danny, quite honestly. I have to say though, I have seen an enormous amount of Lindsey hate that seems wholly out of place with the blandness of her character. Whoever happened to mention that Lindsey, and especially, Lindsey/Danny haters also happen to be Flack/Danny supporters really hit the nail on the head. It's true. It's an ugly truth, and I've already seen posters protest this, but I've seen it. Almost every "hate Lindsey/Danny" comment is followed or proceeded with something about Danny/Flack, and while I appreciate slash as much as the next person, the aggressive insistence that only D/F!Love is the "right" love is really, really annoying, and it's not really discussion. It's just adding to the shipping wars by claiming that one ship is stupid or useless than another. The problem here, and I've seen it in every fandom I've been involved in (and you haven't seen wank unless you've been in HP or PotC fandoms), is that by insulting another ship, in a roundabout way the people in that ship feel attacked. Reasonable? Probably not, but that doesn't matter. It's the psychology of the issue. There isn't a real way to solve the issue without handicapping a person's right to their opinions -- I certainly am bull-headed and stubborn and when I make up my mind about something, I'm vocal about it. My second (or third, I forget) post is a prime example of that. Shipping is always a sensitive issue, and the only thing that can be done about it is for people to just relax and enjoy the show and characters for what they are.