hiphugger17
Coroner
Re: Vartann&Willows #1Vartllows:b/c This Guy..'Can Hit the Bowl'
I agree 100%. I think that Lou has been pretty clear that he wants more in this relationship than just enjoying what they have now; he wants a future with her. I think that if Cath is not ready for that then she needs to own up to it. Yes, they are both stubborn, but keeping things from your significant other that are quite huge (like you owning a big part of a casino and having lots of money because of it) will always make the other feel left out and confused as to how important he/she is in the other's life. I understand the BTK thing hadn't come up because that was a while ago and not something you go like "hey you know what..." but stuff that's in the present and that constitute an important part of your time and money should be shared if you're in a relationship you're taking seriously and want a future with. So I agree that Cath is just living for the moment and it makes me so sad for Lou. I would understand more if, after she mentioned that she had been in a lot of complicated relationships, she would've understood more that he just wanted to feel more included in her life but she just used that as a defense as to why she didn't want to share more with him.
Aside from all that, I do think the angst was written really well and was quite in character for both of them. I do hope they work it out and that it all has a happy ending .
In both episodes, she's been giving him less than what he wants (moving in, sharing personal information). It seems like he's trying to have a serious relationship with a future, and all she's interested in is living for the moment.
I agree 100%. I think that Lou has been pretty clear that he wants more in this relationship than just enjoying what they have now; he wants a future with her. I think that if Cath is not ready for that then she needs to own up to it. Yes, they are both stubborn, but keeping things from your significant other that are quite huge (like you owning a big part of a casino and having lots of money because of it) will always make the other feel left out and confused as to how important he/she is in the other's life. I understand the BTK thing hadn't come up because that was a while ago and not something you go like "hey you know what..." but stuff that's in the present and that constitute an important part of your time and money should be shared if you're in a relationship you're taking seriously and want a future with. So I agree that Cath is just living for the moment and it makes me so sad for Lou. I would understand more if, after she mentioned that she had been in a lot of complicated relationships, she would've understood more that he just wanted to feel more included in her life but she just used that as a defense as to why she didn't want to share more with him.
Aside from all that, I do think the angst was written really well and was quite in character for both of them. I do hope they work it out and that it all has a happy ending .