Sookie
CSI Level One
Dear man I went on some dates with,
I didn't enjoy my dates with you. Here's why:
1. You kept looking at your cell phone on our first and second date. It shows me that you are not interested in me. And I didn't like it when you answered the phone during dinner on our second date and had a conversation with your friend. What was so important that could't wait a few hours? I heard the conversation, nothing was.
2. 98% of the time, I was asking all the questions (the usual ones -favorite things, likes, dislikes, etc) to get a conversation going, a one sided conversation. Would it have killed you to say "what about you?" more than 2% of the time? I got the impression that you had no interest in finding out anything about me. And yes, I got tired of saying "well, I like" when you wouldn't ask me anything.
3. I didn't and don't want to hear about your old girlfriends.
4. I didn't like being asked on our second date if I think about you or on a scale of 1-10 how much I like you. You can't ask me what I like to read, but you can ask me that?
5. There were long moments of silence and I didn't want you to think I was bored or not interested so I would think of things to say or ask to get a conversation going. After all, the dates would have been boring if we just sat there, eating our dinner and not talking. They also would have been only 30 minutes long. During these long moments of silence, I didn't like it when you kept asking me if I said anything, then laughed at me when I said no. Maybe you like to joke around, but I don't like being made fun of by someone I hardly now.
Am I being too picky?
I didn't enjoy my dates with you. Here's why:
1. You kept looking at your cell phone on our first and second date. It shows me that you are not interested in me. And I didn't like it when you answered the phone during dinner on our second date and had a conversation with your friend. What was so important that could't wait a few hours? I heard the conversation, nothing was.
2. 98% of the time, I was asking all the questions (the usual ones -favorite things, likes, dislikes, etc) to get a conversation going, a one sided conversation. Would it have killed you to say "what about you?" more than 2% of the time? I got the impression that you had no interest in finding out anything about me. And yes, I got tired of saying "well, I like" when you wouldn't ask me anything.
3. I didn't and don't want to hear about your old girlfriends.
4. I didn't like being asked on our second date if I think about you or on a scale of 1-10 how much I like you. You can't ask me what I like to read, but you can ask me that?
5. There were long moments of silence and I didn't want you to think I was bored or not interested so I would think of things to say or ask to get a conversation going. After all, the dates would have been boring if we just sat there, eating our dinner and not talking. They also would have been only 30 minutes long. During these long moments of silence, I didn't like it when you kept asking me if I said anything, then laughed at me when I said no. Maybe you like to joke around, but I don't like being made fun of by someone I hardly now.
Am I being too picky?
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