Dear friend, Hey I'm glad you can talk to me, and I mean it when I say I don't judge you or think any differently of you for what you're doing. But please. Please stop texting me at all hours with 'we went to the movies' or 'we were out dancing'. I'll listen to you yes but I seriously do NOT want to lie for you. It's getting to the point where I can't look your husband in the eye, and you're putting ME in a rotten position if he ever decides to ask me about stuff. I'm a very bad liar. And I never agreed to cover for you anyway. E.