I'm convinced that they do live together. They dance around each other not knowing or fully knowing how they feel just not knowing what to say.
So, that's my theory on why both Stella and Mac saw other people last season. They still can't (even after
Grounds for Deception) say what they need to.
But, you know what, that's okay with me. I want to see them take their relationship... SLOW.. more hand holding, more hugs, more secret looks that no one else sees. That sort of thing. More mentions of Claire even.
Mac loved Claire, Gary said in an interview early in the show's history that Claire was the love of his life. I think Mac struggled for a long time to admit he could love Stella. So mentioning Claire could help clear the air about how he felt about both women. I also think Stella would appreciate that from Mac knowing that yes, he did love his wife. ( I also smell a fanfic out of that scenario
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That would be nice. I think Mac talking to Stella about Claire would be really special, because it shows that he trusts her enough to talk about Claire and his feelings for her and his grief for her. I loved that scene in The Closer (ep 22 in s1) where he talked about how powerless he felt on 9/11, Stella looked like she wanted to cry for him! But that was the first time since Blink that he'd opened up to anyone about Claire. That he felt able to trust Stella with the fact that he felt powerless is very important IMO because it is hard for Mac to talk about his feelings, admit to any weakness (feeling powerless) and that he did so to Stella in season 1 shows how much he trusts her.
Same goes for when she talked to him about her doubts about dating again after Frankie. Really nice, sweet, bonding, scene that showed the trust between them.
I agree with you also about neither of them being quite ready yet to admit how they feel. As Mac pointed out in Time's Up, they're similar in that they're cautious when it comes to relationships. IMO this is because they have both been hurt in the past. Also, I think both would be worried about risking their friendship because after Mac losing Claire and Stella being so hurt by that *beep* Frankie, their friendship (only it's so much more than just a friendship!) is really important to them.
Poor Mac He struggled because he couldn't do anything different. He lost Claire under special circumstances and it took years to him to recover. And the one who helped him to come back alive is Stella. She was the only one who finally made it possible (i still remember how worried she was and how she helped him in American Dreamers:drool
Oh, that was lovely. She was the only one who could bring him out of his shell, and make him smile. I freakin' love American Dreamers.:drool:
I wish i could believe they are so living together. That was our special dream, remember? But one thing is for sure: they leave close enough now because now they leave the lab together when before that, Stell said they lived in opposites sides of the city
Good point! I never thought of that. I like the way your mind works, and have missed it, Debbie!
So it would be ok if Mac could mention Claire because he loves Stella because she is Stella, she is nobody's replacement. I mean, Mac could have lived forever and ever in darkness but he decided to go on and his best friend, his companion, was there when he was lost, she was his strength:thumbsup:
Exactly. I don't think Mac would want to replace Claire, or Stella would want to do that. Mac loves Stella for who she is, not as a replacement for Claire. Though I think they may have personality traits (going after what they want for example) that he likes in his ladies.
Ah it'll take more than insane fangirls to scare me lol. I fit right in here
Welcome, MacsGirl!
G! G! G! so happy to have you back!:thumbsup:
Happy to be back. I've not been on this site much for a while, just been busy watching DVDs (just finished watching s2 of House on DVD) and working and doing lots of reading. Plus what with CSI NY being on hiatus in the States, there's no 'new' Smacked stuff to talk about. But I have missed being here!
How are you, how is work? I hope all is good with you!
Caught the end of the repeat of Forbidden Fruit here last night, and that fight is definitely more a 'lovers' fight than a 'boss-employee' fight. Love how sad they both looked at the end. I love not just how Stella isn't afraid to stand up to Mac when she thinks she's right, but how he isn't afraid to stand up to her 'cause of her temper! He's not scared to fight with her, and I think that shows a deep level of trust and also that he can handle her!
I love my Stella's temper:lol: I hope some day she will trhow something to him to his head. Probabbly childish but highly enjoyable
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That would be funny. It would be nice to see her apologizing to him later, he'd forgive her, even if she hit with him with whatever she threw at his head.:lol: If Danny or anyone else threw something at Mac, he'd probably suspend them, but he lets his Stella get away with so much more. Seriously, bosses don't let their employees sit on their desks the way Stella sits on Mac's, or argue with them the way Stella does with Mac.
And regarding 5.16 scene i believe Stella wanted and need to hear that from Mac (the fact he needed to hear her advice) and he didn't realise why it was so important to him to get her approval. he only knew he DID need it
I agree. In FF, I think she needed to hear from him that she should look at things in the Diakos situation from his point of view. He told her he had to be responsible for everything that happened, and IMO that's why she hid going after Diakos from him, to protect him so if it all went wrong he wouldn't get in so much trouble because he didn't know about it and she went against his orders. She didn't want to put his career on the line as well as her own. She was willing to let Angell and Danny potentially risk their careers by helping her break the rules, but she seemed determined to keep Mac out of the loop, to protect him. Mac, of course, would risk everything for her, and she must know that.
Ah, I have missed the Smackedness so much!
*does Happy Crazy Smacked Lady Gutter Thoughts Girl Dance*