Sara_Grissom_Fan
Prime Suspect
Re: Grissom&Sara #23 - Hot, Butt-Kicking, Chainsaw Wielding
yeah-Sara's always been more direct face to face with Grissom, than he has her, but Grissom has being more open about his feelings and physical attraction than sara in a way, like sarahvma said. i totally agree Adzix though. i really think he would. he seems he would be a sensitive/romantic sole outside of work and i can imagine sara being somewhat the same. and beauty was always a big thing for him with her, he was intimidated by it, and feared rejection like he said (but not face to face, she was there, but with everyone else-but she got it.) probably thought he wasnt good enough for her.
but even though Grissom has verbally made more statements about wanting or loving Sara than Sara has about Grissom, i think thats for balance more than anything. sara is very open about how she feels, she's came to him on numerous occasions to say how she felt and has made it very obvious on other occasions. Grissom wasnt like that, he wasnt ready and he was scared, but we had to know it was two sided, so we got flirty hints and BF etc. so we knew he did. i dont think its anything to do with sara being less open or feeling less or whatever.
i think sarahvma mentioned in our last thread though, she knew him prior to LV and in the pilot, Grissom was quite hot, he looked younger and stuff. she knew him from SF, so she probably knew him at his peak, so just cause someone ages doesnt mean the attraction goes. so since she was attracted to him before she even came to LV because she said she moved to LV for him and 5 years later she's still attracted to him, it suggests shes always found him attractive. she must if she wanted a relationship with him, you cant be in a relationship with someone you dont have a sexual connection with. then its more like friends. plus like Adzix said. she was basically calling him attractive in the grey hair scene. but i think with sara, looks never meant as much to her as the person. i totally think its him as a person shes overall attracted to. cause like Adzix said, he's everything the people around her growing up that have emotionally scarred her were not. she'd obviously feel safe with him, but i think, she was just in total awe of him and how controlled and clever he was, and that grew to respect...i cant ever imagine sara having a meaningful relationship with someone who was dumb, or not as clever as herself. i think she was attracted to everything about him. Grissom however put a lot more emphasis on physical than mental attraction, but like i said, i think thats because he was intimidated by it and not because he found it more important, i think over time, he became attracted to everything she was and stood for just like she did him.
yeah-Sara's always been more direct face to face with Grissom, than he has her, but Grissom has being more open about his feelings and physical attraction than sara in a way, like sarahvma said. i totally agree Adzix though. i really think he would. he seems he would be a sensitive/romantic sole outside of work and i can imagine sara being somewhat the same. and beauty was always a big thing for him with her, he was intimidated by it, and feared rejection like he said (but not face to face, she was there, but with everyone else-but she got it.) probably thought he wasnt good enough for her.
but even though Grissom has verbally made more statements about wanting or loving Sara than Sara has about Grissom, i think thats for balance more than anything. sara is very open about how she feels, she's came to him on numerous occasions to say how she felt and has made it very obvious on other occasions. Grissom wasnt like that, he wasnt ready and he was scared, but we had to know it was two sided, so we got flirty hints and BF etc. so we knew he did. i dont think its anything to do with sara being less open or feeling less or whatever.
i think sarahvma mentioned in our last thread though, she knew him prior to LV and in the pilot, Grissom was quite hot, he looked younger and stuff. she knew him from SF, so she probably knew him at his peak, so just cause someone ages doesnt mean the attraction goes. so since she was attracted to him before she even came to LV because she said she moved to LV for him and 5 years later she's still attracted to him, it suggests shes always found him attractive. she must if she wanted a relationship with him, you cant be in a relationship with someone you dont have a sexual connection with. then its more like friends. plus like Adzix said. she was basically calling him attractive in the grey hair scene. but i think with sara, looks never meant as much to her as the person. i totally think its him as a person shes overall attracted to. cause like Adzix said, he's everything the people around her growing up that have emotionally scarred her were not. she'd obviously feel safe with him, but i think, she was just in total awe of him and how controlled and clever he was, and that grew to respect...i cant ever imagine sara having a meaningful relationship with someone who was dumb, or not as clever as herself. i think she was attracted to everything about him. Grissom however put a lot more emphasis on physical than mental attraction, but like i said, i think thats because he was intimidated by it and not because he found it more important, i think over time, he became attracted to everything she was and stood for just like she did him.
i wouldn’t mind Liev's character trying to secure grissoms job by doing that, as long as it didn’t start to destroy or have a negative effect on grissom and saras relationship, as long as it strengthened them and didn’t weaken them. it could produce some classic GSR. but i wouldn’t want him to actually end up securing gris's job.