Mrs.DelkoWolfe
Lab Technician
I disagree, I don't think Calleigh had much of a choice if she wanted to know the truth. He didn't just say "I'd rather not say" or "Can we talk about this later?" when she asked who was on the phone (which, by the way, wasn't just any old phone call he was making on his break, or at home. They were at a crime scene, and he wouldn't have answered unless it was work-related or VERY important. Who can blame Calleigh for being curious), he outright lied to her. When he found out about his fake birth certificate, he didn't even bother to tell her, and I think he should've. As Calleigh said, that is a huge deal, and if Eric is (rightfully) affected enough to say "all of a sudden, my life is a lie," Calleigh has a right to know what Eric's feeling.
I disagree there are always choices. Why did he have to tell her about his fake birth certificate? It's not her buisness it's his he didn't need to tell her about that. She dosen't have to know what he is feeling. She can be curious about it and ask and she may want to know but to say she has a right to know and has to know is a bit of a stretch to me.
No, they may not be sharing everything, but they are sharing parts of their lives. They may not live together, but they do spend some nights together and are intimate. They also make time for each other, share feelings, talk, etc.
They are sharing not parts but part of each other's lives but for the most part their lives, their hopes, dreams, ambitions, decisions, thoughts, and choices are their own. The rest of it is just usless BS brain farts on the side of TPTB.
Yes this stuff his a huge part of his life and he has every right to keep Calliegh out of the loop. It's not her business not her issue! Sure she wants to help but it is soley Eric that needs to figure this out. He has to find himself on his own that is a personal thing that she should stay out of because by butting into it will only make it worse. Eric has to find out who he is and who he wants to be by himself because it will shape the rest of HIS life. I'm not saying he should be childish and yell at her but he also doesn't have to talk to her about it either. He has every right to keep this to himself. He doesn't have to share his feeling on this with her or anybody else for that matter. How is Eric supposed to find himself and who he is and who he wants to be if he has a lot of outside influences? With other influences he'll probably become even worse then the trained puppy he has become now. It's njust like if Eric wants to take a trp by himself to Hawaii for whatever reason, he dosen't have to tell Calliegh why and she dosen't have to go with him and she should trust him enought to be like "whatever he wants to go to Hawaii ok so what" and just let it blow over with out throwing a fit. Eric should (like any grown person) be able to get up go to Hawaii spend a good week drinking mojito's on the beach and then come back! Apparently there isn't that much trust on the part of Calliegh.But the stuff with his biological father is a huge part of his life right now. It's not fair for Eric to keep Calleigh completely out of the loop. He obviously feels lost, doesn't know who he is, etc. Calleigh should know that, because even as a friend, she'd want to help him in any way she could. Eric's probably experiencing bouts of depression, anxiety, and anger. When Calleigh asks what's wrong, and how can she make him feel better, should he just say "I'm not telling you because it's none of your damn business. I'm going to just sit here and stew. Go away"? That's extremely childish. No, he doesn't have to get into detail about "I called my father today," etc., but he shouldn't lie. He should say something like "I'm struggling with my feelings about my biological dad. It would make me feel better if we could talk/cuddle/eat bananas/whatever."
I guess what I'm not understaning is how it's ok for Calliegh to go and do her own thing, be closed off with her feelings and have her own personal life but it's not ok for Eric? To me that is a bunch of crap and unfair to Eric. To me it only inhances the fact that Calliegh has to be in controll or she flips a shit.
I saw Eric/Natalia as natural for Eric. Ooh, new girl with boobs! Big ones! This sounds like fun! And hey, she'll be a nice distraction when I don't have to take Marisol to the doctor. Granted, I think if they both had played it differently, it could've ended up as a long-term relationship. But they didn't. They both screwed up, and after the whole mole-reveal thing opted to be friends instead of becoming romantically involved again.
I guess that we'll always see this differently but I highly doubt Natalia was a distraction of any sort for Eric especailly when it came to Marisol. If Eric is willing to almost get fired for Marisol I'm sure he'd break a date with Natalia with no notice for Marisol. Family comes first with Eric, it's engrained in the character. I also think the way it was played was well done Natalia had just come out of a bad and potentially deadly marriage so it's understandable that she didn't want to be exclusive. Yes they both messed up but they loeved each other and still did the following season. Eric didn't treat Natalia like she was a play toy espcially since he was determined to protect her from Nck the next season. The fealings that these to had and still have for each other don't die easily even with the mole-reveal sistuation the two were still headed down the long-term romance bath but they were just conviently inturrupted by the bullet in Eric's brain and the comatose induced e/c relationship. Eric/Natalia was about more than physical attraction and great sex because it is implied that they actually did have conversatons with each other and talk about their feeling dreams ect.