Bingo! To Danny, sex = a means to stop people from abandoning him. However, in the case of Danny and Flack having sex, it'll most definitely be something significant to Flack, seeing how his entire face lights up at the mere mention of Danny's name. And Danny may have used sex as a means of keeping people to him for so long that sex no longer has any association with love for him, but Flack may very well be the exception.
Yeah, I can see it that way. I think Danny uses sex to keep people around him and happy with him. He used sex to settle a bet with Lindsay (jokingly, I know, but the implication was interesting) and he used sex to ease Rikki's pain/keep her from blaming him for Ruben's death. But Flack...well, no matter what a brat Danny is, Flack doesn't give up on him. That alone must be different to Danny.
Maybe that's why Danny's jumped from one woman to another and continues to do so even with Flack in his life now. Women are 'safe territory' with Danny; he's experienced enough with them to know what to do to fool them, so to speak, and block himself from any potential and lasting hurt. Men, on the other hand ... it is possible Danny may have had sexual experiences in the past with other men though I doubt it was as many as with women. I don't think Danny is experienced enough to know how to deal with a man making advances towards him, much less a man who genuinely loves him.
Exactly. I could see guys using Danny in the same way I think women do--for sex, for a good time. But Flack clearly doesn't want to just use Danny or take advantage of him. And that's got to be throwing Danny off.
So Danny could use his tactic of sex to keep Flack around, but Flack isn't a stupid guy and he isn't the kinda guy who's gonna let Danny do that to him for long too. Flack certainly wants more than just sex and in many ways, Danny wants more than that too. He just needs somebody who's strong and patient and loving enough to wait for him to come to that realization, like a particular homicide detective who's heads over heels in love with him.
I think Flack wants to show Danny he's sincere, but I think he's also got a serious weakness where Danny is concerned. Flack wants Danny physically, and I could see Flack getting sidetracked by that a bit.
Hahah, it's entirely possible for them both to be bisexual. There was actually a discussion about their sexualities in one of the previous D/F threads, I think, and some people feel that Flack leans more towards men. Then again, there are many stories in real life about totally gay men getting married and having children and being in the closet for decades before finally coming out. Just because a guy's slept with a lot of women doesn't automatically mean he can't be gay. *shrug*candygirl1uk said:
Which one is bisexual? which one is gay? Are they both bisexual??
I've never, ever seen Flack get as excited about anyone, man or woman, as he is about Danny. Danny makes Flack smile, there are tons of screencaps that show the blatant lust on Flack's face as he looks at Danny, and Flack just kind of focuses on Danny if Danny is around. I think Flack's just in love with Danny. I don't know about either of them with other guys. I guess I can see Danny more than Flack because I think he gives it up for anyone who comes along and pretends to care about him. :lol: I could easily see Danny being the first guy Flack has ever wanted, but based on how much Flack wants Danny, I don't think Danny being a guy matters to Flack. He just wants Danny, period.