(I began typing this before
DaWacko made that lovely post up there, so forgive me if I seem redundant
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I have posted in this thread, and I have also posted in the threads devoted to Lindsay/Anna. I can see the reasons why viewers love the character, and I can also understand the criticisms made against the character and the actress. I know that I am not the only poster who makes a definite effort to bridge the cap between those who like Lindsay and those who do not. I try to be conscious of what I write so that I do not insult people, although it is possible that my opinions can be unpalatable either way. In the past I have made concerted efforts to bring conversation that is positive about this character into various threads on the forum, but in the end it comes down to whether other posters are willing to share their positive opinions on the matter. In no sense was I out to ‘bash’ an actress when I posted in this thread, so I find it insulting that someone would come into a thread and suggest that
everyone within that thread ‘hates’ an actress, or that
everyone ridicules her. If you have a problem with a comment made by a fellow poster, then the correct procedure is to take it up with that poster or one of the moderators—and I don’t mean in the middle of the thread. There is a reason that every poster is able to click the ‘notify moderator’ icon at the bottom of a post. When topics in a thread become arguments back and forth, it derails the thread and causes tension. I don’t come onto this board to see people arguing about their right to have an opinion—I come here to share my own opinion and see how others feel. If you feel that something is unfair in the forum, there are ways to say it without coming into a thread and posting generalizing statements. Not everybody in this thread ‘hates’ Lindsay or Anna, and yes, there is a difference between dislike and hate.
Now, that having been said, I don’t see the problem with you posting that you are unhappy with some of the things that have been said about the actress,
BlueSmurfette. However, you could have said so without coming across as condescending and offensive. If, as you’ve indicated, you dislike the way that some people in this thread have come across, does it do you any good to come across the very same way when you are berating them? I believe that I can restate your opinion in a way that is much less generalized and insulting, but from my own point of view because I don’t want to put words into your mouth:
I am a fan of CSI: NY, and I love to watch the shows and come onto this site to discuss it with my fellow fans. Although Lindsay is not my favorite character on the show, I agree that some of the comments made in this thread have been a bit harsh. Everyone is entitled to their opinions about an actress, but I’d like to ask that everyone be especially careful what they say in a thread like this, in which there is naturally going to be a great deal of tension and debate. What one person takes to be a joke might not be interpreted that way by someone else that reads this thread. The entire point of starting this thread was to discuss why the character should no longer be on the show, but it has turned into some sort of battle and that’s just not necessary.
DaWacko has put it very well, I feel. I think it’s reasonable from now on to expect any post made in this thread, be it for or against the character, to be substantiated. Because the season is over now, there is very little that can be said about the character that has not already been discussed time and time again. So I am asking, very politely, that the discussions here attempt to delve into new territory if they are to continue.
By the way, I have to add to the sentiment that I appreciate
Audrina’s presence in this thread. You (and other Anna/Lindsay fans as well) have done a very nice job of explaining how you feel and what you like about the character.
(Although I do have to wonder if you think this is a game of ‘whack-a-mole’ the way you pop in and out of your hole like that. :lol: I promise we don’t have mallets to bop you over the head.
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Now, back to the discussion of "Why Lindsay Must Go" or, alternately, why you do not feel that she should.