dutch_treat said:
It’s absolutely true that a part of my impressions are based upon wishful thinking; if you like something you tend to look at it through rose-coloured spectacles, I’m not denying that, but that doesn’t mean that it’s nothing more than that. I’ve been reading a lot here and on other boards after episode #19 had aired and that made me realise that there are more Lindsay and/or D/L fans than this board alone made me think. Of course I cannot back that up, because there are no actual numbers available, but that episode and the commotion it caused was a great chance to read many, often very divers, opinions.
I’d disagree with the idea that just because you like something you look at it through rose coloured glasses, for instance I happen to like CSI: NY that doesn’t mean I don’t see its faults, failings, and shortcomings. I don’t divide the world that way, I hope most people don’t, between blind acceptance and utter dislike, there is a middle ground and liking something doesn’t make you unilaterally blind to the weak areas or the problem spots. In marriage, you love someone with all of yourself but it doesn’t mean that the way they leave their cereal bowl in the sink doesn’t piss you off.
I’d have to disagree about the fuss that episode 19 caused because it certainly didn’t translate in the ratings, the Danny/Lindsay scenes weren’t worthy of a place in the promos, failed to garner a mention in the leading entertainment magazines for the week, etc, so the hype you are referring to must be entirely online. One of those boards I would imagine doesn’t have a whole lot of negative to say about Danny/Lindsay’s almost kiss.
the most ardent fans, the ones that bother to post, are decidedly split on the issue. It says something whether people want to accept that or not
I just cannot accept it because I think it’s not correct and nothing I’ve read so far has me convinced that it is.
To disagree is one thing to dismiss entirely is another, because the reality of this board is that there is a great divide, if you choose to ignore or not acknowledge well then so be it, but for me it doesn’t alter the reality of the situation.
It is not my intention to generalize or dismiss other people’s thoughts or intently miss posts. I very much enjoy reading what others have to say about certain issues even if I totally disagree with what they’re saying. I was merely trying to point out that not everyone who’s against the D/L romance dislikes it because it’s D/L, but because they think romance doesn’t belong in this show at all.
Actually what you said was “those who are against D/L are more often people who are just against romance on crime shows.” So, it may not have been what you meant but the inclusion of “more often” implies most and I don’t think you have the facts to back up that statement. However, if what you meant was some then that I can accept, otherwise I reject such a definitive statement when there are countless posts here that prove otherwise.
I have no doubt that everyone takes the time they find necessary to think out posts and come up with ways to support them, but we have to keep in mind that not everyone has the same capability to write long and insightful posts and that the shorter posts (like mine –this being an exception-) are possibly that way because it’s just hard sometimes to get across what you want to say.
Well, this one and the last one did take me about five minutes apiece, so I agree not everyone has the time. Details to support you viewpoint need not be paragraphs and paragraphs it can be a single sentence, but support is a necessity without it there is no well-formed opinion just a blind one.
Of course (like I already said) I know of the criticism in other threads, but on those threads are positive posts too. And even in the Anna/Lindsay and the shipper thread not everyone feels the same about the character/relationship.
There are people in the D/L shipper thread that finds the relationship as heinous as some of the posters in this thread, the grading thread, and the How do You Feel About Lindsay thread? No. They may disagree about the progression or the writers inclusion about certain scenes, what they do not disagree about is a deep desire to see what they enjoy become canon. The point of my statement is there are not many places dedicated to liking or disliking most of the characters, it would be excessive, why should Lindsay be any different, so no there are not 15 threads on why people dislike Lindsay, because at the moment this one serves everyones needs.
As long as it’s clear that it’s just your impression and not a fact I think there’s not going to be a storm at all.
Those are in fact rose coloured glasses as clearly stated opinions have indeed resulted in many a firestorm.