Okay, here comes a little rant that is not about my pet in particular, but about poeple and pets in general.
Today we went to an animal shelter, we're toying with the idea of getting a second cat once we have moved into a bigger apartment. There was a 3 legged cat, about 9 years, sweet, pretty and apparently clever (they said in her description that she was able to open doors). If we had enough space we would have taken her with us. Anway, on to my rant. The 3 legged kitty is sharing her room with a one year old brisk little kitty, and in the 10 minutes we spend watching them a handful of poeple came by, going all crazy over the little one, completely dismissing the older cat.
Only when they noticed that it had just 3 legs, they took the time to pity her for a moment before they averted all attention back to the younger kitty. There were 3 families/couples immediately willing to take the little one, but no-one even considered the other one for a moment.
How come that people are so against the idea of taking in an older or disabled cat? Are they not worthy of a loving home and some attention?
There was another cat, it's description said it was a peaceful, friendly and quiet one, tolerating other cats, and it was also pretty. Only problem: It had a blind eye and needed constant medical care (nothing serious, just eye drops or something). The poor fella has been there for weeks, waiting for someone to take it in. But no, people don't want damaged goods. They come looking for young cats that are uncomplicated and flawless. How sad is that? They don't come to the shelter for the sake of saving a life, they just want pets that are cute and they hope the shelter is a cheap place to get one.
We spend half the day reading online ads and reports from the animal shelters in our area. It's sad to see how long some pets have to live there because nobody wants them, and it's unbelievable to read how many of them actually get placed in families and are brought back because they don't meet the expectations of their new owners. What do people expect? Frightened cats and dogs pee in corners, scratch and bite. Everybody knows that, so why do people pressure their pets? A little bit of patience and understanding works wonders.
We took in a very fightened cat one year ago, he hissed at us and hid under the couch as soon as we released him in his new home. But guess what, it didn't even take a whole day for him to get curious and inspect the apartment. Two days later he already slept on the bed. He let himself be picked up and he used the litter box from the start. Never in the whole year we have him did he attack us, break stuff or pee anywhere but in his box. And he is not the only one. I know of several other cats and dogs who came from shelters and where frightened as hell in the beginning. But with a little care and understanding they all grew into perfectly sweet pets who all were visibly grateful for being rescued.
This is getting longer than I intended it to be. I guess my point was just that a lot of poeple are thoughtless and egoistic, and it's exactly that sort of people who should not be given pets to.