Alrighty but then in the one interview with tvguide (I think) she said she was a private person, maybe it only relates to certain aspects who knows as to what she feels comfortable revealing who knows. As to the issue of the rules regarding the personal lives of the stars of any of the CSI shows and this board, they have been there from before the time I joined, they have been posted in this forum from the time I became a mod here. But since this is headed into questioning of the rules and what the role of a moderator is, I directed the whole topic to the admins, they will step in if they feel it necessary. Anything further should be directed to either myself or TallyHo via PM, or the QSF forum or PM the admins. Otherwise this will move on topic as normal.