I think the scene was so interesting, because Sara is there, after just talking to Keppler, seeing that Keppler doesn't miss home at all, and she's worried. She's sitting there, still trying to figure out that dratted stick. She wants to believe that Grissom misses her, that he longs to hold her, but she just had a man tell her that he's on the other side of the country from home, and he doesn't mind a bit. Sara's worried...
I think the scene is current, but I'm not positive. I mean, I think it *could* be a flashback, but I like the idea of it being more recent partially becaues of the amount of beard growth, and I think it'd be poetic. Here she is, worrying, and there he is, loving her.
Though, there is also a strong argument for her sitting there, looking at this ambiguous gift, and going back to when he thought of the gift. He was going to send a letter, but he might have thought that his words wouldn't be enough. It's a classic case of miscommunication, and these two are excelling at that, lately.
I love in the TVguide article when Jorja Fox called their relatonship a "Tango." (Don't think I'm giving anything away, here, I just love the metaphor). My fiance is really strong at Tango, surprisingly. The man had never danced a day in his life, but after three private lessons, we finally got the Tango, and he started off so worried, and uneasy, and as we went on, this strong lead came out. We started out with weak arms, me sort of back-leading (something I've had to work on a LOT). I had to stop back-leading, and Matt had to start leading. Slowly, we worked at it, and he was suddenly able to do it. He had the rhythm and the fierceness and, frankly, the YUM factor. It was incredible the way we moved, slow but powerful, across the dance floor.
A tango is so beautiful, so passionate, and yet so tight. It's so much fun to do, if you know what you're doing. I think Grissom and Sara are learning their tango. I think all these little miscommunications are simply part of life. I love that.
I don't think he sent the letter. My father thinks it's because Gris just wanted to get home to Sara. He'd rather see her and tell her in person... but I'm not sure. Watch Grissom's face as he sits there. It's like, he thinks, "This is cheesy." Yes, Gris, it is... but it's also ADORABLE and she would have melted! Women love hand-written notes, especially when your handwriting looks like that. Y.U.M.
Grissom, you should have sent the letter instead of the bug. She has a bug on a stick to remember you by... If you'd sent that letter, she'd save that thing forever. A stick? Erm... I don't have many saved sticks...
Some people have speculated that he turned the letter into the bug on a stick, but that seems a little... too... odd. Even for Grissom. I think he wimped out because he was worried it wasn't enough. It would have been perfect. These two need to talk! Seriously, pick up the phone!