NicknGrissom are you referring to the Jorja Fox/William Petersen Q and A? Where TVGuide asked them a thousand fan-submitted (*cough* including two of mine *cough*) questions? Is that what all this is going back to?
gregslabmouse: What I love about GSR in general is that it is about growth. When Sara first got here, I really don't think she was ready for a relationship with Grissom, and he certainly wasn't ready for her, either. They needed to grow in their own ways before they were ready to meet at that middle point. That's why I think the timing for their relationship was perfect. Sara had been through a lot, especially in terms of dealing with her past and her fears and her issues. She had to deal with her past instead of bottling it up inside of her, and then she proved that she could be stable without Grissom. I'm glad we saw that before they actually got together, so people can't argue that she bases all of her stablity on a man, which can be incredibly unhealthy.
Also, Grissom had to grow, in that he had to detach himself, to a degree, from his work, which had previously defined his life. He lost himself in his work as his entire identity, and he was so worried that he would lose that identity if he was Sara, that he would lose a piece of himself. That's what a relationship is about, giving and taking, but to a man like him, that was terrifying. He had to go through a lot to get to the point where he was ready to be with her...
And now, they're together, and it's great to see the growth and the continuity. It's the best romantic relationship on the show, to me, because they have both grown so much separately and together through the last 6 seasons!