The feelings for Grissom will always be there, as I'm sure is true with him as well, but Sara is in a much better place than she was a few seasons ago... and I trust her to find happiness regardless of where it may be.
This is exactly what the writers want the viewer to feel, and this is exactly my problem, because over 12 seasons tptb have written this relationship to be unique, strong, and enduring. So, no matter what they write for Sara, I can't see her being happy with anyone else. Not to mention we now have an off screen Grissom who must be sad, considering how broken he was in season 9 after Sara left him. What kind of image is that to leave with the fans, when they had such a beautiful, and powerful, one of him and Sara reuniting happily in the jungle? Fans of the show want to see a happy Grissom, as well as a happy Sara; they both deserve that, and we had that.
They created this off-screen marriage when Jorja returned to the show, and Sara was in a good place then, and TTMG was a window into how their relationship worked. And even though some of us were not particularly happy with this LDR that
the writers created, we accepted it.
Then,
presumably, they changed their minds because WP wouldn't return. So, NOW they want to change the story and the rules, after the fans grew to accept that it would be a one sided on screen marriage. It works for the other characters, really, and it certainly would have worked in the old CSI formula with only snipits of their personal lives.
It took Sara and Grissom 6 seasons to get together, another 3 seasons to finally get a happy ending, but only a half a season to split them up. Not to mention that there was so much drama with Sara leaving (twice) and Grissom following her, but they've never really addressed why she can't go to him and fix things. With all that, even though they've done a good job of making us feel sorry for her, I have a hard time supporting Sara and wanting her to move on, which is what the writers apparently want me to do. The Sara and Grissom we knew would not enter marriage without a full commitment to make it work, IMO. The whole scenario is just wrong, and sad, on so many levels, and it belittles both Sara and Grissom's characters, not to mention the fans who supported them.
And yes I'm still bitter about last season, and pessimistic about next season and SF and Doug-or-whoever, not to mention more relationship drama for Morgan and Nick and Finn and maybe even DB (why leave him happily married, afterall?).
Do I want Sara to be happy? Of course I do. And she was until recently, married to her 'one and only'. And I could imagine Grissom happy, married 'to the only person he ever loved'. Old fans can't erase those brief, but powerful, GSR moments. I still don't get why they felt the need to ruin
everything; the marriage, both characters, and ultimately the show for me. They should have just left it alone. Save the drama for the case of the week, or give Sara mama drama; that important storyline was just barely touched on, glossed over, and dropped. Mind boggling.This whole season became a 'What were they thinking?!' one for me.