(Good points,
MBGrissom, you were posting while I was typing. :lol
Ah, I see where you're coming from,
Arkee.
I think in some ways Danny picks up on Lindsay's issues and relates them to Aiden. Aiden was someone that he knew for a long time, and then she sort of got worn down and ended up in a place that she couldn't return from, which ended up leading to her death. So I could see Danny feeling the guilt of not being able to help Aiden and, seeing that Lindsay is having problems, worrying that another friend might end up going down a path that wouldn't end well. Purely speculation, but I like to think that Lindsay is friends with the whole team even if I don't think her relationship with Danny is romantic.
That would be a preferable interpretation for me, rather than taking the 'oh he's so in love and so he'll shield her from the world' thing. I'm not saying you implied that interpretation, I'm just pointing it out.
I can understand that she'd do something that is unprofessional sometimes, which shows that it's obviously something that affects her very badly to cause her to do so. However, as much as I understand the meaning behind it and it leading to her deep, dark secret *cue horror music*, before they actually reveal her secret and explain something about her character, it's just annoying and strange. *shrug* I don't feel like they've ever established anything concrete for her character, especially in light of all of the inconsistencies last season, and so far this season I'm not really seeing a definite direction for her. True, we're not very far into the season, but they really need to give her something. I don't like watching a show and just not understanding or connecting with a character. When Lindsay first came to NY, she had a lot of potential, despite the cliches that they chose for her even then. Knowing her secret later on might help earlier events make sense, but when a person is watching a show, do they really want to go 'in a few months, I'll understand this behavior?'
As for Danny's 'growth' and 'maturity' that several people have mentioned in here, I can understand that. I can understand Danny becoming a different, potentially better, person. But I just don't comprehend what the writers have actually done. Sometimes his character is the same as he always was, but when we're meant to see him being more 'mature' as people explain, all I see is a muffled version of the character. I don't feel like he's changed, just that in certain situations, he's not his usual self.
As for the slapping scene, I don't think there was a better way he could have handled it. Carmine did a good job of showing, in a subtle way, that he didn't like it, but as has been mentioned, Danny is very understanding and sympathetic toward the families of victims. I've noticed several times that he was very sympathetic to the parents who lost their children. I've always been curious about why that is. I mean, he always seems to take an interest in the welfare of children. *remembers the way he told the father off in "Hush" during season 1*
I still haven't rewatched this episode, I need to do that tomorrow.