Electra, I totally agree!
I have found Jesse either boring or offensive throughout this season (Boring in 8.01, and boring and offensive in 8.02). I can't believe he was ever married of lost a loved one, because he just doesn't act like it. I hope the next few episodes have less Jesse and focus more on the interesting and compelling people in the show.
How was Jesse offensive? Who did he even offend? I'm really confused about this..:wtf:
I'm sorry but just because Jesse doesn't act all teary-eyed and cry every other day doesn't mean he isn't feeling loss. Some people close themselves off when losing a loved one, that would make them appear cold and unfeeling because they are trying their best to be composed and not show that they are vulnerable. Horatio half the time can appear cold and unfeeling when dealing with losing a loved one, he and Jesse are similar in that this is just how they deal with the loss. They don't run around like decapitated chickens or throw some huge temper tantrum, they turn themselves off inside so that they wouldn't feel.
Besides, not everything emotional has to be screaming, yelling, crying, or some dramatic facial expression, a good actor can show it all through his or her eyes, and as far as I'm concerned Eddie did a wonderful job of letting his eyes tell the story rather than some huge dramatics.
Honestly, Jesse hasn't done anything horrible that any of the team member haven't done themselves, why should he be the one to get called out and be judged when the other characters still are held up on a pedestal.
I get that everyone has their favorites, but this hostility towards both Jesse as a character and Eddie as an actor is sometimes disconcerting. The man hasn't done anything that reprehensible to earn all this negative reaction, and as an actor, Eddie Cibrian has maintained his dignity and professionalism throughout all of this firestorm against him. Eddie should be getting a medal for being so level-headed.