Top41 said:
You're right--that is unusual behavior for Danny. Danny tends to melt down and get defensive so easily, but he trusted Flack to hear him out and understand where he was coming from. And this is despite the fact that Flack was clearly pretty pissed! That leads me to believe that Danny knew Flack was mad because he was worried about Danny, not because he thought Danny was a fuck-up or would mess things up.
Yes.
That trust alone speaks such volumes about the relationship between Danny and Flack, particularly how Danny feels about and towards Flack. Angry Flack is a scary thing, and you'd think Danny would freak/get defensive/pull up all his walls at an angry Flack like he does whenever Mac or anyone else gets mad at him ... but he doesn't. The
one time Danny snapped (and I mean,
really snapped) at Flack was at Flack's precinct at the end of episode 4x13 and what happened?
Flack didn't snap back. Didn't even get the slightest bit ruffled. He just stood there, defenses lowered, looked beyond Danny's fleeting anger/upset and told Danny the truth. He didn't even need an explanation from Danny. He simply knew what was going on in Danny's mind/heart, just like that. The best thing is that immediately after Flack said, "You're my friend, makes it my business," Danny was hanging his head in regret at what he said. That implied to me Danny did not mean what he said at all. And you have a great point there, Danny knew Flack was mad out of worry, and Flack knew Danny only blurted out what he did out of displaced frustration at himself.
That suggests that Danny knows Flack loves him, and has a lot of faith in him.
Oh, that is undeniable. Flack giving Danny the time and opportunity to bring Rikki to the precinct on his own accord is already fantastic proof of Flack's faith in him. Man, if Danny still doesn't have a clue how much Flack loves him by
now, Danny is the most thick-skulled S.O.B. in the universe. :lol:
And ya know, I'm thinking Flack knows Danny loves him too.
Flack knows that, as well as Danny's fear of what he believes to be love, and he knows that Danny's not the kind of guy you coerce and manipulate into doing or going where you want him to. In fact, love doesn't coerce or manipulate, ever. Flack doesn't need words or deeds for proof of Danny's love; for him, just seeing Danny happy and safe, free from apprehension, that's already a wonderful thing to him. It shows in his interactions with Danny, especially when it's just the two of them.
Wait, come to think of it ...
He's all smiles and happyhappy joyjoy around Danny even when there's a perp being interrogated or chased. :lol: Nothing gets in the way of Flack's love and open adoration for Danny!
Since I have a bit of time to kill before going out, here are my thoughts on how Danny makes Flack feel, etc.:
Carmine Giovinazzo said it best, really: Danny and Flack are two ends of the same style, but of one person, in a sense.
If Danny feels calm and safe around Flack, Flack feels the same way around Danny too though they are such different individuals. His face softens the instant he's around Danny. Around other people, Flack displays his tough-NYC-man exterior, but when it's Danny ...
Yeah. It's pretty tough to beat that expression in the Cute & Lovable category, or any category period. :lol:
It seems that, like Danny around Flack, Flack doesn't think twice about showing his vulnerable side. He doesn't think twice about dropping the tough, no-BS, stern appearance to become an open, affectionate yet still strong man with an almost child-like joy in regards to Danny. Heck, if I'm gonna make an analogy for how Danny makes Flack feel: Just being around Danny and knowing Danny feels connected to him and goes to
him for friendship, support, and more, Flack is like the happiest boy who's been given a most magnificent, one-of-a-kind gift that all the money in the world can't buy him, and he
knows it.
He knows Danny will never intentionally hurt him. He knows that if Danny does lash out, it's usually a knee-jerk reaction, just like Danny snapping at him in episode 4x13. (Heh, writing this out, it's suddenly occurred to me the only person Danny has ever
intentionally hurt, albeit just with words, is Lindsay, in episode 4x17. Interesting, no?) Maybe Flack even knows that Danny will never, ever push him away, just like Danny knows Flack will never, ever push
him away. They don't cling onto each other or view each other with skewed perception or expectations. (I don't think they even
have any expectations of each other. They seem to be content with each other being just the way they are.) They're joined on a much deeper and more complex level. Like Carmine said, they're of one person, in a sense. Different backgrounds, different personalities, different physical attributes but they have the same heart.
Isn't that what really matters in the end?
(Okies, I stop here for now. C'mon, you guys, share your thoughts on Danny/Flack!
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