Re: CSI: NY Season 5 Spoiler Dicussion - Back in the Big Apple
I guess if you took him seriously when he made that offhand comment in season one, then yes, you could look at it that way. I don't think he meant it then, so the idea of him being ready for marriage doesn't shock me. I might believe a comment like that from someone like Flack, but emotional, weepy Danny? Come on.
By having him accidentally impregnate a co-worker? Teenage boys do that all the time. Not exactly the hallmark of "growing up."
Oh, I'm curious, but I can't help but think that on the surface, it sounds like a bad idea. The fact that it sounds like it's a complete 180 from what had been planned for this season alone makes me wary. Add to that not one bit of Danny and Lindsay's relationship has been mature or stable, well, it sounds like it has the potential to be a bona fide disaster.
Again, yet another reason things last season should have been more clear. Mistrusting him because he withdrew from her during his grieving process makes her look like an asshole, especially when compounded with the fact that Danny felt responsible for a child's death. It just makes her look mean, like she's twisting a knife.
On the other hand, mistrusting him because he slept with someone else when she thought they had something would be completely valid and understandable. But if she doesn't find out about him sleeping with Rikki between now and 509, I think she's not going to come off well.
That being said, I think it's not uncommon for a woman to offer to not expect anything from the father of the baby if she's made the decision on her own to keep the baby. The guy looks like a jerk if he takes her up on that offer, but I think we all know Danny's not a jerk.
OK hands on deck. Who ever said or still says they are never getting married, or ever having children? And if it ever happened it would be WAY later in life?
Well, time changes people. I said it and I got married at age 20 and have 2 kids. Now, at the time with the kids I did cry (and not for joy) when I found out I was pg rated with them. But once it settled in I was, I became ok with it.
I guess if you took him seriously when he made that offhand comment in season one, then yes, you could look at it that way. I don't think he meant it then, so the idea of him being ready for marriage doesn't shock me. I might believe a comment like that from someone like Flack, but emotional, weepy Danny? Come on.
Point to the story......Even Carmine told tv guide he has to go where the writers tell him to take the character, and Danny has had to learn there are boundries and limits. So, perhaps they are allowing Danny to grow up.
By having him accidentally impregnate a co-worker? Teenage boys do that all the time. Not exactly the hallmark of "growing up."
You know, like me, he ain't a spring chicken anymore. And, perhaps they want to have that "told you so" moment with Mac and Danny. We can't change it, Carmine can't change it. So, let's watch and see how TPTB handle it. Pam Vesey didn't say it was going to be a bed of roses. Who knows, ole Danny Messer might be a fantastic father. But, for the record, I personally can't wait to see what the future holds.
Oh, I'm curious, but I can't help but think that on the surface, it sounds like a bad idea. The fact that it sounds like it's a complete 180 from what had been planned for this season alone makes me wary. Add to that not one bit of Danny and Lindsay's relationship has been mature or stable, well, it sounds like it has the potential to be a bona fide disaster.
I think the implication of Lindsay assuming that Danny won't be a good dad is based on what she apparently says to him when he confronts her and she tells him she's pregnant. At the moment it's only a brief snippet that's without context and (for me, at least) is open to interpretation at this stage. I personally think it's natural that a woman be nervous about telling a man she's pregnant, it's life changing after all, especially if she's not together with that man or if things are rocky between them.
I think she supposedly tells him she doesn't expect anything from him and I'm pretty sure whatever she says is wrapped up in her mistrust of him and his feelings for her rather than because she thinks he's going to be a bad father.
Again, yet another reason things last season should have been more clear. Mistrusting him because he withdrew from her during his grieving process makes her look like an asshole, especially when compounded with the fact that Danny felt responsible for a child's death. It just makes her look mean, like she's twisting a knife.
On the other hand, mistrusting him because he slept with someone else when she thought they had something would be completely valid and understandable. But if she doesn't find out about him sleeping with Rikki between now and 509, I think she's not going to come off well.
That being said, I think it's not uncommon for a woman to offer to not expect anything from the father of the baby if she's made the decision on her own to keep the baby. The guy looks like a jerk if he takes her up on that offer, but I think we all know Danny's not a jerk.