I know a lot of people here are ex-GSR's who have jumped ship because they think Grissom has been an a** to her, but I still have faith in their feelings for each other. I do believe, however, that as JF recently said, Sara has done her share of pursuing Grissom, and if anything happens, it has to come from Grissom. Although I always have seen a brother-sister vibe with her and Nick, or sweet inconclusive flirtation with her and Greg, ultimately I want her to be happy, so if Grissom flirts with other women or keeps screwing their relationship up, I would have no problem with her dating other men--Nick, Greg, or whomever is going to make her happy. Problem is, I really don't believe she can be happy with anyone but Grissom. Sure, she can date others (she dated Hank, for instance), but truly being in love? That seems to be a bit hard after you've had feelings for someone for so long. 5 years of feelings (probably much longer) is not something you can easily get over. For me to really believe she has moved on, she should be able to reject Grissom when he wants her. It's easy to say you've moved on when you think nothing is going to happen anyway. The ultimate test would be rejecting Grissom. And I honestly don't see that happening, especially given what Jorja has been saying in interviews this year...