Speedystokesgirl
Judge
Well I find that a woman who runs a bordello, where girls are murdered and has people who whip other people into submission, by tying them up and beating them with chains, not the brightest tool in the box. That just comes across as seedy and sleazy. And then goes from that to a "sex-thearpist":vulcan: as our writer in the enterainment section said "only on TV". Now Grissom was intelligent, but a nerd in the romantic department. And as the writers showed, they didn't have contact for like 4-5 years. Friends stay in touch more often then that, I would think. And on fooling or conning someone, Brass wasn't either as the last words he said to her in "TGTBATD" were "get some help", as she sat there in her western garb So maybe she does need some help. I've never in my life heard of someone who needed a "sex thearpist".
First, she didn't run a bordello, there was no sex and the women/men that worked there were not prostitutes.
The people who are the submissives are the ones who are ACTUALLY in control, it's not the dominate and the submissive chose that. Some people need the pain in their life, some people who always have to be in control NEED to give that control up sometimes.
The don't beat people into submission, the person chose the submissive part and they are not 'beaten'. The submissive has a safe word and if gets to be too much they say the safe word and everything STOPS!
She provided a safe environment for that happen.
If you're not in their world then you really don't understand it and it's, obviously, you don't know nothing about that world. I guess it's true: 'Ignorance is bliss'
As for people being murdered there, you can murdered at any place of business and really in the dominatrix clubs today murder doesn't happen.
Lady Heather is a very intelligent business woman and who is able to read people and tell how they are without really knowing them. I am able to do that at times.
Just because you don't know anyone who needs a sex therapist doesn't mean people don't need one. It is a legitimate profession and doesn't just deal with just sex. Again: Ignorance is bliss.
Sara is acting as any woman who is has to deal with a woman from their's husband's/boyfriend's past. You don't like and you have to deal with it and since Grissom and Heather are still friends it would bug her even more.
Then again, if it does bug Sara then she isn't so confident in her relationship with Grissom.
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