To the people trying to use our phone number to charge phone calls:
It's an answering machine and it can't accept the charges. We don't answer the phone right now unless we're expecting a call or we recognize the voice. So you can stop at any time.
To the idiots who are calling us (I think!
):
When the voice says 'please leave a message at the beep'
it's an answering machine. Hello..........Hello...........Hello upwards of 10 times does not constitute a message. It doesn't even give us enough to figure out who you are to be able to call you back if we wanted to.
To my brother's X,
Lady if your kids are such angels with you then how come your daughter can't get past Tuesday before she is gloating on how she got her brother in trouble over the weekend? They go to bed when you tell them to. :wtf: How do you know? According to both your children you're in bed no later than 8 and they're left watching tv and playing video games. You have no idea when they go to bed and if your son is any indication it's way too late. Every time they're there for more than 2 days he practically does a face plant into his dinner Sunday night. It's wrong that they aren't allowed in each other's rooms? They need the companionship. Their room is the only place in the house that each one of them has as their own private space. They need space to get away from eachother. I'll give you that they need companionship, but with kids their own ages. Your daughters only friend is her brother whom she feels free the disturb whenever she wants. Your son had friends but
Mama couldn't spare him for a few hours each weekend so he could play soccer with his friends so he lost them as practically every boy in his class plays soccer (or some other sport) - he has nothing in common with them now. Your X-husband went behind your back and got a lawyer. No - He did what he had a right to do. Just because you, the one who's been remarried, didn't want a divorce doesn't mean he didn't. You can't blame him because you ended up with a court appointed lawyer. You could have gone out and gotten one yourself.
If you want to bring the divorce agreement into it - you get them for
half of Thanksgiving, Christmas, & school vacation weeks. Not the whole damn thing. You are not going to get them for 7 straight days over Christmas and you can go back to court all you want. My advice - get a lawyer this time because the first thing a judge is going to do is talk to the kids (as they're 14 & 12 now) then he's going to delve into your past. They're going to find out about your lack of paying bills (for you and the kids) that you are responsible for. They're going to find out that not only are you divorced but you are now seperated from a second husband and are living with a third potential husband and that it took 6 months for your children to be able to see you in this house because you didn't tell him you had kids. And guess what - you're going to find out that while your daughter has everything she wants at mummies -
She doesn't want to live there. We've threatened to leave her with you permanently and she won't go.
I think you need to open your eyes and realize that the only times you feel motherly towards these kids is on your birthday and Christmas!
