Wow, switching classes seems cool, because that way you get to know and get along with much more people

. In my school, and in most(if not all) schools where I live, we have classes, and those have all their classes together. Some people do have friends in other classes, but I don't think those friendships where made in school. I think they came from other activities in fact. Anyway, I don't think there are groups in my school either. But obviously, there are always the popular ones, those everyone know by their names, those that just seem to feel superior
About fights, I try to stay out of them just as much as I can. I'm not one that gets pissed at everybody because of anything. That is one of the things that most annoy me in people. By any little thing, that we didn't even do on purpose, sometimes is just kidding, other times it's not intentional, and they stop talking at us. The only thing that I feel like doing in those situations is like come right next to the person and tell him/her "Are you doing this just because it's funny for you, seeing me feeling bad, or do you really think this is a way to work things out?". And then, one day later, they don't remember anymore anything of what happened. Then there's those who are like "I am never going to talk to you. Never ever again. You don't deserve it." And the next week are all kisses and hugs. I just don't get it, I don't understand it. But seriously, I don't say anything about this, because I think that will get me another one-hour-of-i-dont-talk-to-you, and I don't want it at all. So I keep my thoughts to myself, as always, I would say. I haven't argued with anybody for some reasonable time. The last time I did (sort of) was in a PE class, but as I always try to do, it was all talked and cleared up in the same moments. I think that's the way things should be. When we have some problem, we talk directly, we don't just ignore the person. That girl in my class yelled at me because I hadn't put the ball in the right place. It was kind of difficult when she was giving me orders

Still, I told her I hadn't liked the attitude, she said she had overeacted but that she thought I could have done better. I was a bit pissed, I must say, she didn't have the right to yell at me, it's not exactly my fault that I can't do things like she does. What pissed was not the fact that she told me that, but the way she did. Anyway, she apologised and I did, too, and things ended up there. I felt so good for being able to clarify everything with her. But that is what usually doesn't happen between my friends. And with the 'boyfriends/girlfriends' thing, it gets even worse. Everybody finds problems where they seem not to be.
Lilly, I don't think I am really good giving advice, but I think you did what was right. It is a hell of a situation when you have two friends that don't go along and you sort of have to chose between them, sometimes. (knows what she is talking about) The worse is when they start gossiping about each other with you, and you fell like crap because you don't want to deny it, as they could be mad at you, neither agree, because that's not what you feel, either

Maybe your friend reacted like that in the moment, but thinking about it, she will realise you acted correctly, and things can go back to normal. That would be the easy way. But things just seem to not go the easy way, in these times, I know...Anyway, I understand that you are sad about everything, you just try not to be bad for any of them, manage both friendships, and they can't see it. Something like getting jealous and possessif. I also know what it is

*huggles* Trying to talk to her would be good if she answered. As she doesn't, you can try to say things anyway, people might not answer, but sometimes things are kept in their minds and they might reflect about it. I don't know if she is too proud to admit that she overeacted. I don't know if you are too proud to forget what happened, and not think more about it, forgive it, if your friend tries to get along wiht you again, not mentioning the subject (with me, that's what people usually do), like if she just started acting normally as nothing happened. That would be what I would do: if she was able to come back, and even though it was stupid pretending nothing happened, I would keep it that way. because it's just like I said, I feel like continuing like that doesn't work for me. But I know that maybe that's not a good option. So, I am not saying what you should do, but what I would do.

Because in this kind of stuff I am so bad

So, I am not of any help, I know it, probably someone else is better than I am. In the meantime *huggles Lilly again*
