JellyBelly said:
I really don't see how you figure out this as being his way of keeping Rikki in his life. To me it was closure, it was Danny making a conscious decision, knowing that Rikki understood the state of play after her acknowledgement of them using each other in RND. It was never a question of this relationship continuing imo.
Danny is someone who's been abandoned by people he cared about in the past. Think of his brother, Louie. All Louie did was push him away in front of his Tanglewood pals, and Danny kept that to heart for
fifteen years. When Danny believes he's losing or has lost someone close to him, it hits him really hard and it stays with him for a very, very long time.
When Rikki went to see Danny, Danny only brought up the 'thing' between them being bad after Rikki asks whether she can come in or not. At that time, Danny was assuming Rikki was seeing him for sex, which also implies that right up until that point, Danny and Rikki were very likely still sleeping together, throughout the whole time Danny was attempting to talk to Lindsay in the last few weeks. He wouldn't have had to tell Rikki only then if they had already stopped before.
So my statement that he said she was right was him wanting to keep her in his life was him thinking that telling her what she wanted to hear would decrease his chances of driving her away. To him, the sex was what he felt was all he had to give Rikki for comfort and now that he's decided to stop giving it to her, well, there would be no longer a reason for her to go to him, would there? Like I said, he's lost people he cared very much about in the past. He's been burnt by it and in his mind, saying and doing whatever it takes to make the other person happy seems to be the most effective route to him to stop people from abandoning him again.
As for the relationship never continuing, as I mentioned before, he told her she was right about the 'thing' between them was a bad thing and yes, acknowledging what she said in episode 4x16. He never mentioned anything about not wanting to see her again. Not continuing the sex =/= not continuing their friendship/relationship. And there's the on screen fact that he became visibly upset
only after she told him she was moving away. He even went, "You're
moving?" Until that instant, Danny was presuming Rikki wasn't going anywhere and was staying in the building like she always has, where he can still see her even though he made the conscious decision to end the 'thing' between them.
And I don't believe it was ever a case of him choosing between Lindsay or Rikki, hence why I don't get the 'second choice' issue if he and Lindsay decide to make a go of things.
Well, you're right. It was never a case of him choosing between Lindsay and Rikki. In his lowest point, he went to Rikki for comfort, even after Lindsay attempted to approach him on the day Ruben died.
Interesting. That to me was the face of a man forcing himself to face up to the truth of the situation. Yes, there's no doubt that Rikki was the source of his closest comfort but this was Danny finally accepting that the comfort he was getting wasn't what either of them needed.
Yes, Danny was definitely accepting that the 'thing' between them was not a good thing, but he didn't look so upset until
after Rikki told him she was moving away. Before, when he was talking to her about her being right about their 'thing', he didn't look upset like that at all. He looked as if he was hoping she would understand his change of mind and not get angry at him for deciding to stop the sex they were having. Rikki even cut him off before he could say anything like sorry and asked him to just say goodbye, and that implies to me she knew he was going to blame himself for making her move away even though that was a conscious decision on her part.
To me, this whole scene wasn't even really about Danny and Rikki. It was about Ruben. Just like I don't think it has ever been about Lindsay coming second place to Rikki, if anything the thing Lindsay has come second place to is Danny's guilt/grief.
Interesting point on Danny's guilt/grief! Yeah, Lindsay has come second place to it, but again, there's the canonical event that Danny turned to Rikki, which meant Rikki
didn't come second place to his guilt/grief.
Surreal_44 said:
One of those decisions, we see later, is that he chooses to end things with Rikki. So maybe that plays into his depression. He's depressed because he knows that what he has with Rikki isn't good for either of them but he's reluctant to let go of it.
The issue I have with this is the noticeable variance in Danny's behavior in the scenes. If he was already so depressed about having to end things with Rikki in the Danny/Lindsay scene, he should have appeared even
more depressed in the Danny/Rikki scene when Rikki showed up at his door to talk to him. Heh, now that I think about it, if his motive had been to get Lindsay to talk to him, yes, he should definitely have been much more depressed in the Danny/Rikki scene because he didn't get what he wanted. Instead, when Rikki shows up, he doesn't look the least depressed and is calm and fine
until Rikki tells him she's moving away.
So yeah. Props being masked by a black blob, sure, I can chalk that up to a continuity error. Very damning evidence that TPTB had wholly intended to show the scenes unswitched until the very last minute but I can chalk it up to continuity error.
It's Carmine's acting performance that really busted things, as described above. Carmine has always delivered his scenes well, so the bizarre switch from one mood to another in a matter of minutes was very apparent. Of course, if the scenes hadn't been switched, Danny's behavior in both scenes would have made perfect sense.
Danny is always emo.
So technically this is not out of left field.
:lol: Yes, he is. The thing is, in past episodes whenever he was shown to be very emotional, there was always a series of scenes/events leading up to the emotional one. The issue people have with Danny suddenly being all emo in this particular scene is that there hasn't been any for it. When Lindsay got all annoyed with him for turning down lunch, he called her out on it and even asked her what was wrong with him doing that. Then he talks to her and interacts with her like they're just friends and mentions renting Jaws, and doesn't look the least depressed or even guilty or remorseful about what he said, even after she walks away from him. He never acted depressed or upset. Then, you have him at the basketball game with Flack and he laughs about pissing off Lindsay more often. And then, you have him trying to talk to her and her turning him down every time, even telling him off for bringing it up at work when
she's done the exact thing in the past.
And
then, out of the blue, Danny goes all emo and calls Lindsay up. His past behavior doesn't add up to that one scene. Like snickerdoodle mentioned in an earlier post, I understand that Danny would miss Lindsay's friendship (hence him telling her he misses her), but I certainly don't buy the sudden and extreme emo-ness from Danny, not unless I see the scenes unswitched and that Rikki moving away and leaving his life has influenced his behavior.
Having him pick up Ruben's card and face the grief was the importance of this episode. Remember, the memorial card was hidden from sight, just like his grief.
I don't expect that he's going to be 'all better', but he's beginning to face his problems instead of running from them, and that's part of the healing process.
Interesting perspective! I do find it intriguing he left it on his coffee table, of all places, where he could see it all the time. If he had wanted to hide it/his grief, he would probably have kept it in a place where he wouldn't have to see it/know it's there every time he sits on his couch or passes his coffee table. It's also intriguing to me that he picked up the pamphlet after Rikki tells him she's moving away and left. To me, him looking at it and still keeping the pamphlet after all this time told me he's not going to let his guilt go any time soon. And if Danny had truly been upset at Rikki moving away because he believes that's his fault too, it's another blow of guilt to be added to his guilt over Ruben dying in his care.
JellyBelly said:
I guess the difference in our perceptions comes from our differences in terms of Rikki's significance in Danny's life. I've never viewed it as anything more than two people coming together because of a shared and tragic experience. I guess if you viewed it as having the potential for something more then you would see it as being about the two of them as well as Ruben instead of the two of them as a result of Ruben's death.
:lol: True, true. I guess this is one of those situations where we will always agree to disagree. And yes! Debates are interesting especially when there are different opinions. It'd be so boring if there weren't!
Top41 said:
Another perspective on the switched scenes: maybe they were moved to give more significance to Danny's goodbye to Rikki/putting Ruben's death behind him. By having that happen after the call to Lindsay, it puts more emphasis, not less, on Danny's farewell to Rikki and his getting (perhaps) some closure on Ruben, or making the decision to move beyond his death. Just a thought.
Yeah, I thought about this and I agree. It does make me wonder just how much influence Rikki's leaving will have on Danny's personal decisions in the near future. Of course, knowing TPTB, it'll be like Louie, gone into the Black Hole of What the Hell is Continuity and Logic.
:lol:
P.S. Oh yeah. I do have a theory on why Danny was reluctant to let Rikki into his apartment. If the scene in 4x16 was anything to go by, and the fact Danny only told her the 'thing between them was not a good thing then, Rikki being in his apartment may have been
quite difficult for him to resist. :devil:
She was the one who insisted it was just sex.
He was the one who insisted on her staying even when she wanted to leave. :devil: That alone speaks volumes.