Kreguba
Witness
Sorry Kinkapoodles. Trying not to let it happen again.
You make a lot of sense Lisa (if I may call you that). Very rarely do either of them open up to anyone besides each other. And now that everyone has been affected by Jess' death, the shooting, Danny's paralysis, I think that both of them feel that they no one to turn to, because it would seem as if their problems were more important than the others.
Some of it also may be the fact that as head and co-head of the crime lab, they're perceived as almost untouchable. Both are seen as stable, strong, focused and determined. After all, how many times has Stella been referred to as the 'Statue of Liberty'? And we all know Mac's not exactly the most emotional person around.
In trying to maintain this image for the good of the lab and it's employees, they are constantly bottling things up that need to dealt with and almost avoiding each other because of it. They know that talking to each other will result in emotions being brought out that they're not ready to deal with yet.
*sigh* Someone really just needs to lock them in a room until they resolve all this tension between them. :scream:
Seriously, though, what they both need is someone to talk to, about the personal stuff that's been going on in their lives lately and with the shooting and how they're coping with that. I can understand not dealing with their problems in a 'healthy' way - Stella seeking comfort from Adam, but cutting herself off from everyone else, and Mac just cutting himself off from everyone and trying to deal with it all alone. But when have they not confided in each other? In s1, Mac was cut off from everyone except Stella, he would always open up to her. Then she was cut off from everyone when she had the HIV scare in s3, but Mac was the first one she told.
yeah, this is true, but in the past it's always been one of them being upset about something and the other stepping in and in those times the upset one has often been slightly cut off from everyone but the other (ie stella would only talk to mac about things, not the others, and mac would only talk to stella about things, and not the others) - both of them are bottlers up in that sense, neither of them talk to people about what's eating them.
this is the first time that both of them have had issues and been insular and cut off - i think maybe both of them are worried that the other one is having problems and therefore doesn't want to "burden them" with their own. i think mac probably realizes that stella's not in a great place and doesn't want to make things worse for her by offloading on her, and i think stella is doing exactly the same. the problem with insular personalities is that if the one person they normally open up to is going through problems, they don't want to trouble that person. which is fine if only one of them is having problems, but if both are, it means neither will talk.
You make a lot of sense Lisa (if I may call you that). Very rarely do either of them open up to anyone besides each other. And now that everyone has been affected by Jess' death, the shooting, Danny's paralysis, I think that both of them feel that they no one to turn to, because it would seem as if their problems were more important than the others.
Some of it also may be the fact that as head and co-head of the crime lab, they're perceived as almost untouchable. Both are seen as stable, strong, focused and determined. After all, how many times has Stella been referred to as the 'Statue of Liberty'? And we all know Mac's not exactly the most emotional person around.
In trying to maintain this image for the good of the lab and it's employees, they are constantly bottling things up that need to dealt with and almost avoiding each other because of it. They know that talking to each other will result in emotions being brought out that they're not ready to deal with yet.
*sigh* Someone really just needs to lock them in a room until they resolve all this tension between them. :scream: