I love Raph, and I wouldn't want them to break up or anything. He's such a good character and a good man. He really loves and cares for Mary. I mean, so does Marshall, but we're in too deep with Raph now.
I'm pressed for time now, so more later.
Okay, now it's later, lol.
I always love it when characters have a love interest outside of the workplace, especially a spouse. I think this adds a sense of realism. Raph is probably my favorite outside character, and maybe even my favorite character on IPS. I may be biased about the whole Hispanic thing... But, that's just me.
Anyway, Raph is very sweet and caring. He supports Mary, and he loves her very much. He's also a very interesting, well-developed character, and, for lack of a better way to put it, it would suck for us to just dump him. Sure, I love the whole Mary/Marshall thing, and I know Frederick Weller said that Marshall is pretty much in love with Mary, but Raph just works right now. I don't want him to go away. Especially not now that they are engaged.
Had she dumped him for the whole engagement thing, I would have also been mad. It would have made Mary seem shallow, which she is not. Them being engaged adds a lot to the show, and, I think, to Mary. How will she change, being a woman getting ready to settle down? How will Marshall react?
If Raph dies later on, I would be sad to not have my weekly dose of Cristian de la Fuente, but it would be an awesome storyline. I'm definitely leaving that open for consideration.