Ooo... good. I was hoping this one would repeat sometime before the DVD's for this season came out and went WAY down in price LOL. I'd been pointing out to my husband the other day while watching the
'Harvest' that I'd missed a fair bit of the original airing of this episode trying to remember where I recognized the son from. :guffaw:
I must say, it was fun reading through all the past comments on here... the feelings of how Nick and Sara each reacted towards this case, and the different thoughts on how people either get or don't get hoarding... and all the unique perspectives between.
As, I think it was
Byline that made the connection, said hoarding is a sub-behaviour of obsessive compulsive disorder. Although that is the general feeling, it's not 100% certain if that's the case or not. There are certain key problems that sort of steer it away from it being a symptom of obsessive compulsive disorder (namely that there are cases of hoarders without any other OCD symptoms, and that hoarding symptoms do not respond to the same medications that other OCD symptoms respond to). Though it is very likely there is a connected pathology.
I myself have obsessive compulsive personality disorder, in addition to mild OCD. It's similar, but different to OCD. I've always had it, and yes, the obsessions and compulsions are completely irrational. One thing a LOT of shows like Hoarders, CSI, and Monk (do NOT go to an OCD group and talk about Monk, that's just asking for trouble :guffaw
don't really show is the fact that more often than not, the people with the condition KNOW it's irrational. That's part of what makes the anxieties that come with it even worse, when you can logically tell yourself that what you're obsessing over or the compulsion you have is completely irrational... but there's too much anxiety/discomfort to believe your logical mind over the irrational.
I also have some VERY mild hoarding tendencies. I have a closet full of my Grandparent's clothes, shirts and a few jackets that even the idea of someone getting rid of them sends me into a panic. They are nothing more than clothes, that the scent of a Grandmother who died 20 years ago has worn off of and that at least a few shirts a Grandfather never actually wore but had received as gifts before he gave them to me before he died six years ago. But to get rid of those clothes now would be almost as painful as their passing was. It
physically hurts to think about it.
As far as Nick and Sara's reactions go... I know it probably goes against what everyone would automatically think... but I'd rather encounter people with Nick's perspective over Sara's any day. There's a few reasons for this.
One being that Nick's perspective is what's common. With time and a little explanation, they tend to go one of two ways... respecting the difficulties and interested in learning more, or they continue to look at you as a whack job. The former, great; the latter, bye!
Another relates to the first a bit... for those that learn to respect the difficulties and choose to further their knowledge, they generally don't treat you like damaged goods. If I had to wager a guess, this is where Nick would likely end up.
On the flip side, folks with Sara's perspective do tend towards one of two things, either they treat you with kid gloves or they treat you like a case study.
The big one for me, why I personally
hate seeing people come with Sara's perspective of empathy... the only people who can truly empathize with someone with OCD or hoarding type behaviours is someone else with that condition as well... and I'd rather no one else ever have to go through it. Sure, it's not a deadly disease, but I still wouldn't wish it on anyone in the world.
And for anyone that's curious about it, don't bother watching Hoarders/Obsessed/etc... the best documentary I've found is
OCD: The War Inside. It is a VERY difficult watch. I saw it shortly after my own breakdown and diagnosis, and my husband even ended up crying because of how accurate it is to not only the experience of the person with OCD, but also those who live with them.
So for everyone who said Nick was being an ass... Maybe, but now he's got a chance to learn... which is something Sara likely won't think she needs to do, because of her sense of empathy. (Not that empathy is normally a bad thing... but in this case, it results in her being less likely to seek out further information than Nick would be).