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But I really have to quote your exact words from about a month ago:
Maybe unnecessary, I can guess that you remember your own post ^^;; :lol:"I don't want season 4 Lindsay back. That's what I'm afraid will happen if the writers don't try to change the character to show that she has grown over the years. I know most of her fans thought her behaviour was justified in season 4 and will probably defend her again if she reacts the same way this time, but I hope that even her most loyal fans realize that she's now a mother and a wife and has to deal with the things she avoided in season 4. She can't have it her way, she can't be the victim again. She's going to have a hard time adjusting to the situation and Danny is going to be difficult and will probably shut her off, but Lindsay has to learn to deal with it, so we can sympathize with her plight. If she doesn't, this will be the nail in the coffin for the character."
Oh Maya, how could you do this to me? You are evil! :lol::lol:
Of course I remember
From now on, every time you ask me to clarify one of my posts, I'll address you to Fay and PerfectAnomaly because they said it ten times better. :lol:
She's suddenly a different person - a person who might be inoffensive overall, perhaps, but somehow it doesn't feel like character growth to me. It just feels like they decided she should be Super!Wifey/Mommy now and ignored a lot of what went on in the past in order to accommodate that. *shrug*
I think it's a huge leap to say it's natual growth to go from supporting one of her husband's decisions (to stay out with the "Blue Flu") and giving flowers to one vic's wife to carying the weight of her husband's injury, raising their child and being on top of her game at work and still having a sunny outlook and disposition. She went from isolated instances of being compassionate interspersed with more instances of being completely unsympathetic to SuperSpecialPerfect!Lindsay.
We've discussed this before and while I agree that this new Lindsay is better and characters have to change, my problem is not the transition itself, but the smoothness and simplicity of it. As I've said before --I'm sure you'll find it -- Lindsay has never reacted well to stressful situations and this is a extremely difficult one, and humans are creatures of habit, you don't change that much in such a short span of time under such adverse circumstances. You learn to adapt and learn to cope, which is what Lindsay is obviously doing, but you also internalize your fear and doubts and if you don't find a way to vent, you'll explode. Lindsay is good at bottling her feelings which is a really useful way to approach a crisis, but I don't think this is realistic. Four episode and she still seems like she could go on forever being this perky, positive and overall perfect human being.
That's why I said that I have the feeling that the writers gave up on her, first with the perfectly avoidable pregnancy plot and now with this character reboot. It's easier to have an accept a character like she is now, than try to write someone more flawed and conflicted. And no, by conflict I don't mean she has to be arguing with Danny every episode or threatening to leave him. Conflict means that she is entitled to have his own little meltdown and seek for support.
But it's not just that you asked for a stepford Lindsay. It's that you (and really, not just you -- tons and tons of people, all over the fandom, including me) asked for a supportive one who wouldn't play the victim again. So I guess what I'm really not understanding is how Lindsay's creating conflict/being the victim and not being supportive of Danny would've been the nail in her coffin -- but her supporting him and putting her issues aside is also the nail in her coffin. TPTB have shown her grown over the years; they've shown her dealing with Danny (although not with him being difficult, but honestly, I'd rather avoid the DL-drama than have to watch it, just my opinion); they've shown her dealing with the things she avoided in Season 4. How is that making us forget about her past behaviour? That's showing the exact growth most people were looking for, and hoping to see.
I'm going to give you an analogy, without citing names, because I don't know if it would be appropriate here. Lindsay reminds me of a young actress that married a certain A-list actor and became this perfect wife and mother. Gossip sites have dubbed her stepford [name] because she became this robotic version of herself. She only has words to describe how perfect her life/husband/family are and how much she loves them and how happy she is, regardless of the sacrifices she surely made, so bloggers poke fun at her because nobody talks as if they had this chip implanted that told her what to say. That's how I see Lindsay. She's just an impersonal, cold and --most of the time-- emotionless character.
Anyway, PerfectAnomaly is right, this isn't a Lindsay thread so I'd be more than happy to discuss this in detail somewhere else. I think this would make for a good "Why Lindsay Must Go" debate since this is another reason why I think the character is better being a full-time mom --not because I think women should take care of children while men work, just to clarify myself--.