ok now I'm baffled... :wtf: First off, you are NOT the only one I've called out for forum etiquette and missuse stuff. Not even close. Second, there is a big, big difference between putting *drooling*/*melts*/*dies*/ and comments like "his arms...!", as opposed to going into the minutae of why you like or dislike someone's ass. The latter is just vulgar. Simply saying you like it it is fine and one thing, details of WHY is not ok. Third, if you're referring to me referencing him having extra-marital affairs and the like, don't try to say I'm lying. I specifically referenced the interviews where HE has said so himself. Fourth, I have no idea what your personal background is, and in relation to this discussion it really is a moot point. I was simply stating that my reasons for bringing up inappropriate forum content were not personal to me at all, and it wasn't that I was being some sort of whiney "I'm feeling left out and hurt and now I'm pouting and being mean". That sort of attitude doesn't enter into my vocabulary. Finally, there is absolutely NO need to try to play a victim card based on your personal struggles. I have no idea what they are, would never try to diminish them, or use them either positively or negatively in this conversation. I didn't not bring mine into the picture as some sort of contest, and I do not appreciate the sarcasm. I will not carry this discussion farther. Any further personal attacks will be taken to the moderators. If you wish to say anything more about this to me, please it take to private message, so we can free up this thread back to it's intended topic.