Jade_Nolan
CSI Level One
ok now I'm baffled... :wtf:I have read posts that are neither respectful or appropriate so if you don't mind saying this I DO feel cut out by something that others seem to have a full access- like drooling and comments about somebody's sexuality, appearance and conduct. Also a few notorious lies coming out straight of your mouth ( marriage, love affairs, sex affairs and so on..), so don't mind if I leave because I don't feel a slightest need to indulge you in this debate but I'll honor you with everlasting mention.You don't have to go elsewhere, just keep what you post in the public threads respectful and appropriate. And like I said, we all have similar feelings, otherwise we wouldn't be here, and we make those known. And sometimes it's just really easy to blur and cross the line between what runs through one's head, and what can be posted. Hell, I've caught myself and gone "wait a second...! oops...!" But while a "holy hell, I did just say that... sorry guys!" is perfectly fine (and quite understandable actually ), I do have problems with when seems to happen on a regular basis. You don't have to feel different, just keep certain things relegated to private message conversations (trust me, I've taken convos off public posting too *halo* )
And about surviving the environment- I survived the worst possible environment one individual can survive, in comparison to that hell is a holiday. But I'm sure my solitary survival is nothing towards your story of success and belonging that you earn with your work, capability, help of your friends, family and finally getting the uniform on.
Enjoy in your newly acquired identity, I hope it would last for ever.
First off, you are NOT the only one I've called out for forum etiquette and missuse stuff. Not even close.
Second, there is a big, big difference between putting *drooling*/*melts*/*dies*/ and comments like "his arms...!", as opposed to going into the minutae of why you like or dislike someone's ass. The latter is just vulgar. Simply saying you like it it is fine and one thing, details of WHY is not ok.
Third, if you're referring to me referencing him having extra-marital affairs and the like, don't try to say I'm lying. I specifically referenced the interviews where HE has said so himself.
Fourth, I have no idea what your personal background is, and in relation to this discussion it really is a moot point. I was simply stating that my reasons for bringing up inappropriate forum content were not personal to me at all, and it wasn't that I was being some sort of whiney "I'm feeling left out and hurt and now I'm pouting and being mean". That sort of attitude doesn't enter into my vocabulary.
Finally, there is absolutely NO need to try to play a victim card based on your personal struggles. I have no idea what they are, would never try to diminish them, or use them either positively or negatively in this conversation. I didn't not bring mine into the picture as some sort of contest, and I do not appreciate the sarcasm.
I will not carry this discussion farther. Any further personal attacks will be taken to the moderators. If you wish to say anything more about this to me, please it take to private message, so we can free up this thread back to it's intended topic.