I didn't and won't say that playing the game shouldn't have a winner to the themes, all I said is not to let it become a pattern of the same people winning over and over again, sort of like a circle. Just make sure that new folks know they can come play without thinking its a private game between a certain amount of people. This may not be anyones intention, and this is great, but sometimes things get going and you look down and realize there might be a pattern, so someone has to break it. Hopefully this explains it further as to what I meant. 
