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ETA: Holy crap, tl;dr!
I haven't done this in a while. :lol
Not to get all up in the debate, but - it's true that not every fan of Lindsay or DL is the same person over and over again, but I can say for a fact that I have seen the same people form a major part of the pro-Lindsay/DL group at 4 or 5 different sites (possibly more). The same as one might be able to name a few of us as the most vocal anti-Lindsay people around, there are some names in my mind that stand out as the most vocal pro-Lindsay people around (at least back when I was more active out there on the intarwebz - I tend to stick to TalkCSI and my small group of friends on LJ these days).
(For the sake of background information, at least from my few years in the fandom) I've seen familiar names crop up in debates on various sites - at the time, it was almost like a battle of wills between certain groups of people (the presence of certain people could inspire people from the other group to join in, etc). And I do know that (in the past at least), there were people who would post a link to a place so that other fans could all converge for the discussion/debate/argument/what have you (or to post in a poll or ask questions or sign petitions or anything like that - rallying others to provide a certain kind of feedback, etc). It was all very dramatic. :lol: And it's possible that some of that is still going on. Fandom can be fun - and it can also be Srs Business. Anybody who has ventured into the Harry Potter fandom can attest to that! :lol: (Personally, I try to steer clear of the HP fandom - the controversial nature of some of the characters and/or pairings might be exciting and fun for some, but I get enough drama in
this fandom.
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So yeah - all of Lindsay's fans aren't the same few people, but it
does happen that some fans are part of different sites.
(Anyway, that was just for discussion's sake - it's not an insult against anybody else in the fandom, nor is it me trying to bring drama from other sites here. I don't even know if there
is drama on other sites. I'm all about TalkCSI. :lol
I don't think people here or anywhere else being against Lindsay can be used as a measure of her popularity - to me, that implies that people are against her simply
because she's popular when in fact the number of reasons that people dislike her are many and varied, depending on the individual. Just as the number of reasons that people
like her are many and varied. Some like her just because they like her. Others may like her because she's different than the others (or they can relate to her as the 'outsider'). Some may like her because of her relationship with Danny. Some may be so vocal in her defense simply because she's perceived as the underdog of the series. The list goes on. *shrug* I have my reasons for liking Adam, and sometimes I can get a bit defensive when it comes to him (mainly when people are just being mean and stupid, of course
) - certainly not to the degree that Lindsay seems to inspire, but you know what I mean.
The character is polarizing, which some people take as a good thing and others don't. Honestly, that's another topic that's up for debate. :lol:
As for the self-insert thing...I'm hesitant to go there since I know it's a sensitive subject, but I think it comes down to the same thing that happens when you find any character to sympathize with or grow fond of: that character takes on an added significance. It isn't just about the character, it's personal. You like the character, or perhaps you identify with the character, so it isn't just about that character anymore. For that reason, Danny with Rikki wouldn't have just been an issue of 'oh, I need to switch to this new girl so I can self-insert as her instead' for a lot of people - it would have been an issue of cheating for some people, of betrayal - and that betrayal could be a very powerful thing when it involves a character (Danny) the person formerly cared a great deal for. (Although the cheating/betrayal aspect is debatable for a lot of reasons in this case because there hasn't been a lot of clarity, now or in the past, about the issue.)
Hey, if Donald cheated on Timmy (*points at Donald Strachey banner*), I'd be furious - with the writers for doing it and with the characters for being involved (in so far as the characters are 'real', and let's be honest, I don't think there's anything shameful about becoming emotionally attached to characters that are created for us to watch and connect to). I'd probably take Timmy's side and be angry with Donald on his behalf. It's not even a matter of me self-inserting as Timmy (although that would be interesting, wouldn't it? :devil
- just as I don't think the drama over Danny and Rikki is just a matter of self-inserting on NY - it's a matter of me empathizing with the characters and making connections. I don't know how it is for anybody else, but Donald and Timmy are cuter than a box of puppies, and I see their relationship not just as a fictional relationship portrayed by talented actors - it has the added significance of being one of those 'I wish I could have love like that someday' fictional relationships for me (admit it, we all have them
). Seeing one of them betray the other would be more than just watching fake people doing fake things on TV. I'm sure that's the case for some of the DL fans who reacted badly over (and are still angry about) Danny sleeping with Rikki.
Wow, that got long and kind of off-topic. Sorry!
Basically - fandom
is srs business. :lol: I mean, if you're in fandom, it's probably not just watching TV anymore. People are rabid fans or rabid detractors for any number of reasons. It doesn't necessarily mean a character is better or more popular or more well-written - and (to try to get back onto the topic of spoilers), even if a character has a gazillion fans, that doesn't mean they don't have faults or things the creators of the show should deal with, expand on, or use to create personal growth for the character.
Also, I don't think Adam being nice to Lindsay says much about how Lindsay treats him - maybe it is a sign that TPTB don't intend her to come across a certain way, but...I dunno, I kind of see it as part of who he is. He sees himself as the low man on the totem pole (and has said as much in the past), and I think he expects a certain amount of that kind of behavior from other people. Maybe he is used to it. Maybe he just lets things slide off his back. Maybe he's aware of it but he's a more generous person than some of us are about it.
I think we should discuss Adam more. Adam isn't the cause of enough discussion and debate! :lol: