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baker_grad said:
That said ... there have been several details this season. In the second life epi Danny has this talk that connects love ... with someone you're planning on spending your life with. Not a leap all guys make. I think those details are important.
I have to agree with this but I also find it interesting that some people seem to think that anything Danny says regarding love/marriage has to do with him being with Lindsay and that somehow now that Lindsay is here everything he ever said about it, is all because of her. It just seems that since Lindsay appeared, there is no Danny or Lindsay individually anymore and that everything one of them thinks/says/does has some bearing or underlying meaning about the other one. Whether they're together or not, every single thing they do/say/feel/think can be done without them thinking about the other.PerfectAnomaly said:
baker_grad said:
That said ... there have been several details this season. In the second life epi Danny has this talk that connects love ... with someone you're planning on spending your life with. Not a leap all guys make. I think those details are important.
I find it interesting that some people, I'm not saying you specifically, use that detail as some kind of sign that Danny is in love with Lindsay. Lindsay stood Danny up in S3, so to me the comment he made about not standing up the woman with whom you want to spend your life was an indication that Danny maybe isn't all that enamored with Lindsay.
baker_grad said:
More than Lindsay giving Danny what he needs, Danny needs to let go enough to turn to Lindsay. If he keeps blaming himself he won't. He's the one who's holding it in. To be fair, no one knows how to deal with the death of a child. No one knows what to say. I say this because if the writers have him turn to someone else, it's on him and he has no excuse.
I just don't think you can put the blame on Lindsay for saying 'I don't know how to deal with this.' Dealing with the loss of children is hard and very very real. I really hope the writers don't hang it all on that. What she said is what most people would say to someone they respected (Mac) and wanted advice from.
I agree but I don't think she has it in her. She's selfish. It was perfectly fine for Danny to tell her he'd be there if she needed anything, but I think she expects Danny to let her if/when she wants to be there for him.Everyone grieves differently, and if Lindsay can say, "I'm not good at this," she can certainly say, "I'm not good at this, but I'll be here if you need anything."
Danny needs to let go of what? The grief? I certainly hope that's not what you meant. It's true that everyone grieves differently but there's no reason she couldn't have at least told him "I'm here if you need me." or if she couldn't find the words, a simple hug would do. People can argue all day that he would have turned her away but he talked to Mac (not that Mac's much more emotional support than Lindsay) and the promo shows Flack talking to him. That makes me put the blame on Lindsay. Going to Mac instead of Danny gives me the impression that even if she doesn't know what to say/do, she'd rather just avoid Danny than to try. Danny's the one in pain therefore Lindsay is the one who needs to be flexible.More than Lindsay giving Danny what he needs, Danny needs to let go enough to turn to Lindsay. If he keeps blaming himself he won't. He's the one who's holding it in. To be fair, no one knows how to deal with the death of a child. No one knows what to say. I say this because if the writers have him turn to someone else, it's on him and he has no excuse.
I didn't see Angell running to Mac for advice. She told Danny herself that she was sorry and without saying more, let Danny know that even if she didn't know what he was going through, she cared enough to reach out.I just don't think you can put the blame on Lindsay for saying 'I don't know how to deal with this.' Dealing with the loss of children is hard and very very real. I really hope the writers don't hang it all on that. What she said is what most people would say to someone they respected (Mac) and wanted advice from.
From an audience standpoint (unless you just want DL together), it doesn't appear there's anything more between them besides sex one time. I've seen no indication this season they are a couple but couple or not, Danny needs support/comfort and from what we've seen in episodes 11 and 12, he hasn't gotten it from her. You certainly couldn't blame him for soaking it up from whoever offers it to him.As far as the audience knows, they slept together once. Danny turning to someone else for support/comfort when/if Lindsay proves she can't be there for him wouldn't be a bad thing if that is what happens.