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I must agree with PA here. I'm not a hater, I just dislike. There's a distinct difference.
your post is the best example of a good debate. I understand your point. I respect it. Also i liked your words on Mac and Stella's relationship. Because you were fair enough to admit they look nice.Well, as others have stated the friendship between Mac and Stella is played out really nice. But I can only see it as a friendship. Leaving aside the possible writing issues, and the abomination that is DL, I strongly believe that between these two can only be a friendship. Why can't there be friendship love between a man and a woman, and always it has to go somewhere romantic?
It's true they can keep their relationship as it is. For me is nice too. But i also i am a firm believer when you get marry, you marry your best friend. It's the person who will know all your feelings, who will know you more than anybody else. Who will see your soul "naked". You don't have to pretend in front of your husband/wife! (I mean in a normal relationship)
For me their relationship fits that idea. I wonder if Stella will allow herself to show in front of anybody else her vulnerability. The same she showed in front of Mac when Professor P. died
They have shared an intimacy nobody else shared and when i say "intimacy" i mean in some spiritual way
I wasn't asking for an apology. I was just making a statement. Perhaps it wasn't applicable to your statements, but I've been called a ship "hater" before, so I probably reacted viscerally. So I'm going to apologize, and end this.Alex--->But the difference i didn't call you a Smacked hater. I was just speaking in general. In that case i must respectfully disagree with Miss Blue. There are Non Smacked fans (actually i use that term very often) but there are also Smacked haters I don't think you are not in that second group.I must agree with PA here. I'm not a hater, I just dislike. There's a distinct difference.
And because i was talking in general i won't apologize for nothing else
Regarding PerfectAnomaly--> i don't know what is going wrong but you seem to think all my comments are about you. And certainly i don't have time to make my comments "personal". I don't have broad band at home so i have only 15 minutes more or less to post anything. It's your decition if you believe it or not but posting in another language with people from other country is a world of difference. I can say it because i post in English and French. But the difference is nobody else thought i was being rude for making a bad choise of words. And i post since 1999. If you think i attack you in any way send me a PM or participate inside the Smaked Thread or the Stellarina Thread. I can only tell you I have a good communication with all kind of fans. Flannel fans, DL fans, Non Smacked fans and so on. I express my opinion, they know what i think, they express themselves and we still have a great communication.
and ITA with that! I don't want the show loose quality either. I think it's possible to find a way to give a chance to our ship and at the same time make it so subtle to avoid make angry to non Smacked fansDebs, you rock!! I totally agree with you it wouldn`t bother me if they became a couple, on the contrary I would loved it, as long as the show and the stories don`t lose quality!!
Fair enough I understand very well what you are saying because i remember the Smacked Thread was a reflection of the general fandom back ther in S3. The Smacked Thread was at the second page!!!! There was a certain air of pessimism because many people liked MPac ship.I will admit that when I first started watching (second season finale) I at first considered Mac/Stella as a possible ship. However, when season three came around I became intrigued by Mac/Peyton, and didn't pay much mind to M/S through S3. By the time S4 came around I valued them as friends, not lovers, so I never again really considered the possibility of M/S. Now that we're heading into S6, I see them even less as a couple, because I believe that it could ruin the close friendship. Plus, I feel as though it would ruin the dynamic they have as the leaders of the team. They benefit from the way they can question each other, and while I'm not saying that that would change if they got together, it would definitely be different. And I like the way it is now.
certainly there is not such a thing as a pattern behind my words. I write, i make mistakes and when i can i edit messages but only in a very lucky day. I don't have time to do anything else these days (I have started my training at the hospital again) i am studying two differents things so you can bet i am closer to a "Burn out" syndrome than to a "Battle" in some forum. I don't know why you feel in that way. I only post in the Smacked, Stellarina and Mac Thread and time to time in other places but it i don't have any group as a target. Actually, in the past i gave some "lashes" towards DL fandom and storyline but it's over now (there is nothing i can do to change what it was done so for me it's an old story)But when a pattern develops as to how a certain group of fans are addressed I start to believe there's more going on than just miscommunication and misunderstanding.
I refrained from commenting the first time this phrasing came up.There are Non Smacked fans (actually i use that term very often) but there are also Smacked haters ....
I agree with a lot of what you say here. For me though, I think I really saw their friendship as unique from season one, and I suppose I have regarded it as worth too much to risk tampering with, for lack of better phrasing, ever since.I will admit that when I first started watching (second season finale) I at first considered Mac/Stella as a possible ship. However, when season three came around I became intrigued by Mac/Peyton, and didn't pay much mind to M/S through S3. By the time S4 came around I valued them as friends, not lovers, so I never again really considered the possibility of M/S. Now that we're heading into S6, I see them even less as a couple, because I believe that it could ruin the close friendship. Plus, I feel as though it would ruin the dynamic they have as the leaders of the team. They benefit from the way they can question each other, and while I'm not saying that that would change if they got together, it would definitely be different. And I like the way it is now.
I hope that they don't put Mac and Stella in a romantic relationship. I see a lot of love and respect in their relationship but no romantic chemistry whatsoever and neither of them are a quick hook-up for casual sex sort of person so, for me, it wouldn't work in any way.
In the first season I saw Stella as a safe place for Mac after he lost Claire. Someone he could joke around with and be himself with and not be looked at in pity or as a potential mate. He seemed so lost and alone that he needed Stella in that role.
Then she was the sister that encouraged him to get out and meet someone, even taking his tie off and loosening his collar. She was there for him when Peyton didn't come back, again as a sister that loved him like family and supported him. He treated her the same way when she killed Frankie and again when her apartment burned. He offered to pay for her lodging and even offered her his extra room. That is what family does.
Stella has never appeared to be attracted to him, and has always looked outside the department for romance. Mac doesn't seem to be attracted to her, and as many times as she has hugged him, he seemed uncomfortable and sort of just stands there. He is amused by her and she infuriates him occasionally, but I don't see attraction or sexual chemistry. I see deep and abiding friendship, purely platonic. I value those kinds of relationships and had that kind of dynamic with a supervisor one time and will always cherish it as something unique and beyond compare.
It would be a shame for the writers to take that and warp it into something romantic because the temptation to play with the love aspect is just too strong.