Read and understood...
Actually, let me add more: I hope the people really do take this seriously and don't just say that they understand simply to say it. I like the shipper forum but I understand that it can get pretty bad if left unchecked (like other forums about different shows I've visited recently), so I take your assertion seriously and hope it never comes to shutting down this thread.
By the way, I like the lovely fuchsia color of your name TBonz.