We'll have to disagree about Sandra and Jesse, as I said it can't be she wants nothing to do with him, she has been helping with the kids when he was in rehab. I would think she would have filed differently. And moving to New Orleans may have nothing to do with Jesse but the fact that alot of stars move to other states to raise their kids out of the lime light. She also has a home in Texas to. But how do we know that he won't be visiting, we don't. As to role models the problem is what we don't know, there are alot of stars out there that we would say, look at how good a role model they are and then shocked when they do something bad. Or the ones we think will be bad, and we get surprised to find they aren't all that bad. Then there are some who are the way they are and we get it right, its a crap-shoot. Thing is we don't know what he is like as a father, from interviews Sandra has done, I doubt she would have helped him get custody if she thought he wouldn't be a good dad, or adopt a child with him to start with granted she is finding somethings out now but still... She knows him better then we do, we only know what is reported and then read between the lines cause its usually blown way out of porportion. What I love is if this was a non celeb deal would we even hear about it? I doubt it. But it's just one of those things we disagree on.