I live here in Orlando and every single day they talk about that case. I will be glad when the whole thing is over. I am glad they did finally find the remains. I think the mother is completely guilty in so many ways.
Sadly, she is certainly not giving us reasons to think she is innocent of the crime.
But what I'm totally freaked about is her parents, they have been acting so weird.
I read somewhere (and anyone here is free to correct me as I don't have time to link an article)that one ofher family members took down a memorial put up in front of their house for the little girl.
If it's true, why?
We had two murders of little girls back in 2003 and then in 2004 and the parents were so overhwelmed with gratitude at such displays they cried during the press conferances and expressed thanks. They did eventually take the toys and donate them to a children's hospital (of course), but to me if people are willing to take their time to pay tribute to your child, it's a wonderful gesture.
Child murders are very hard for me to read about as a mom, you literally grab your own child and hug them so hard you don't want to let go as much as they are saying, "Okay mom I know you love me, but I wanna go play my Nintendo DS."
On a different topic, I always feel for the people who discover the bodies of these children. I still remember the young man who called in absolutely shocked and devastated when he found the body of Samantha Runion, a 3 year old girl who was snatched off the street in Florida-I believe. He was inconsolable on the 911 calls. I still get goosebumps when I remember hearing that call on CNN.
I've read accounts of people who find the bodies of murdered children and many of them have had to go to therapy because they are haunted by the images.
Sorry for being so long winded, these cases hit home for moms like us, especially when its the mom who appears to be guilty of doing it. We can't understand how you can do such a thing.
If mothering is overwhelmng you have those thoughts, you need to go out and find support, find help. I became a single mother when my daughter was 14 months old and I moved to a brand new community. I reached out and got help from so many agencies, parent groups and even a church.