I can't speak for anyone else, but for me the self centered label in this situation stems from her "I'm not very good at this" comment. She did go to the morgue when she heard, and Danny walked away. Her only comment to Mac was about herself and not about Ruben or Danny or the tragedy. No one has said anything about Flack because Flack hasn't been part of that story line as of yet. Since HNA aired, there have been comments about Angell and Mac, because we got to see them react to and with Danny.