This is coming from a not-so-average teen in the 21st century so excuse me if I offend anyone...also there may be a little vulgar language...
I'm a guy and 17 years old and a junior in high school. I've never smoked, drank alcohol, or done drugs in my life. And I've also never had a girlfriend. And it seems impossible nowadays to find a girl who actually has some respect and isn't a slut.
It seems like most girls in high school (AND COLLEGE, ESPECIALLY) just want to get drunk, party, and follow the crowd. Especially in college they seem to have no self-respect and they go around doing the "grind" dance at parties, basically dry humping each other, giving lap dances, etc. They get drunk and wasted, wear barely ANY clothes, then they flash their privates and stuff. Then they sleep around and provide sexual favors to even the most douchebaggy of guys. WHAT WOULD THEIR PARENTS SAY? Then what is worse is the media glorifies it with movies like
American Pie and
Project X encouraging this behavior. I was reading about teens grinding at parties and dances. I've never been to an actual school dance in high school before. I went to some in middle school but they had the rule where you had to be a foot away from each other. Nowadays all I hear is that the dances are just for an excuse for girls to hump guys and say they're not sluts because everyone does it. But surely just because a majority of people do doesn't make it right? Girls get dressed up so beautifully just to dance dirty and rub their butt on some h0rny dbag guy. :scream:
I hear some REALLY nasty things. How the girls take their panties and bras off, freshmen girls grinding on seniors (so 14 year olds on 18 year olds), girls actually getting on their hands and knees for guys to rub their butt, grind lines, making out and hooking up with random guys, bodily fluids, etc. If I ever went to a dance and saw these things I would probably throw up...no lie.
These are young girls and it seems like they are being manipulated by guys but enjoy it... It's disgusting. I just think it's sad that girls act this way. They deserve more. And what irks me the most is how all the time girls complain about wanting "respect" and a "nice guy"...well surely 'dancing' like that won't accomplish that.
I was thinking about going to my first dance next year, just with some friends because I'll be a senior and wanna make the best of my last year at high school...but if I see this stuff I might not be able to stomach it. I try to be a nice guy but it seems to get me no where. And it seems like girls don't really care about class anymore, they like being bend over and groped like a mop.
I'm a nice guy and actually have respect for women, instead of just treating them like sexual objects. I feel like I'm never going to meet a nice girl who actually respects herself. I often get depressed and stuff over this…I sometimes feel bad for the girls and myself. I would be a good boyfriend (I think), but it seems like girls don't want love, they just want to be sluts.
And don't make and BS excuses like "she doesn't know what she wants" or it's her parents fault" without giving me a proper reason WHY that makes her act like a slut.